#ldr asks

[ldrloversblog]

Armand: you don’t understand he’s 6′ 4″ and has a huge dick and he’s my dad 

No I see the vision, I really do.

But I was promised Marius with luscious long blonde hair, not the terrible wig from party city

[veciti-filozof]

LDR Asks

This is my first time making these, but please, enjoy!

How did you guys meet?

What was your first impression of your current partner(s)?

What made you fall for your current partner(s)?

Who confessed first?

Who said "I love you" first?

How long have you guys been together?

Do your friends and family know and, if so, are they supportive?

What was your opinion on ldr before meeting your current partner(s)?

What's your friends'/family's opinion on ldr?

How long is the distance really?

Is there a time difference you have to keep in mind and, if so, how big is it?

What would your reaction be if your current partner(s) just showed up at your door as a surprise?

What do you guys do to make the distance feel close to or completely non-existent?

Describe your current partner(s) in 5 words, go!

How often do you guys FaceTime?

How would your first date with your current partner(s) look like?

Do you enjoy doing mundane tasks while on the call with your current partner(s)?

Your current partner(s) name pops up in your notifications. What's your reaction?

Have you ever met up with your current partner(s)?

Have you ever had a fight with your current partner(s)?

How often do you daydream about your current partner(s)?

Do you think non-ldr couples take closeness for granted?

Have you made playlists for each other?

How different/similar are your guys' aesthetics?

How did you save your current partner(s) contacts? Under which nickname?

Does the distance make the heart grow fonder?

How fast do you guys reply to each other's texts?

Do you nap/sleep on the phone with your current partner(s)?

How often do you guys text?

On a scale of 1 to 10, how soothing is(are) your current partner's(s') voice(s)?

ASK AWAY!!!

[distanceisnotabarrier]

Hi Malle! Sorry if I'm intruding, but why are you and Sean waiting until 2022 to close the distance?

You’re not intruding at all! It’s a fair question! Well, I’m a bit behind on my education because I was too sick with my mental illnesses for 5 years, which meant I couldn’t study. Now I’m finally back on track finishing my HF - which I finish summer 2018 (which would be a bit higher grade than high school and around the same as A-levels if you’re familiar with the US or UK school system) Unfortunately I cannot study my university degree in England because I simply don’t have the finances for that, and I am fortunate enough to live in a country where I can take a university degree for free. Sean on the other hand just finished his master’s degree, and landed a really really good job just fresh out of uni - the plan was for him to come live here while I study, but he has this amazing job, I can’t force myself to make him leave it. So even though we’re married (which of course is out of love but also practical because of the threat of Brexit) we cannot live together until my uni degree is done :( I am looking into partly paid scholarships or maybe a year abroad with my degree, but I still can’t fully move until my degree is done.I hope this answered your question! xx- Love Malle

[hell-is-a-teenage-girll]

can I ask when you were in a long distance relationship with your gf what are the things you two do to keep the relationship alive (you don’t have to answer if this is intrusive, apologies if it is)

I still am in a long distance,

We just make sure we're not just lovers, we're also best friends so we can talk about everything basically

We send each other pictures, videos, video call at night

I just think to many people believe a relationship should constantly be lovey dovey. While you should also be friends. If you constantly have to be like overly loving in your messages, and only talk about that, I think you'd get bored pretty fast. So yeah mainly that

[hell-is-a-teenage-girll]

Hey

I wanted to know if you two meet through tumblr?

And how long did it take for you two meet in person?

Thanks

Yes we met on tumblr! We first briefly spoke in August, from September we became inseparable, and we met up on the end of october😊😊

[hell-is-a-teenage-girll]

Hey!

My LDR gf is having v sad times and I really wanna send her some cute comforting stuff, do you have any ideas? I was thinking like a candle and some warm socks etc but any other suggestions would be appreciated massively! I just wanna make her feel loved from a distance!

I always think personal items are a win! Something for her to have parts of you around her. Letters, notes, maybe clothing of yours, a plush,.. Things that are very you ❤

Good luck ❤

[hell-is-a-teenage-girll]

I hope you two did make a sex tape so you have something special to enjoy when you're apart ❤ ldr suckkkkks

I fucking love this so much ahhaah the I hope you DID make sextape.

I love this haha, but yes it doeeeees suck, luckily we can catch pretty cheap flights to eachother and it’s not that long! 💕

[hell-is-a-teenage-girll]

It sucks for everyone but I think it's harder for those of us with mental illness. Sometimes life gets busy and I can't even talk to her, and it is so hard on me. I really understand what you say. We shouldn't "compare", we should just be there for each other. Even if someone struggles with being away from someone for a day.

exactly!! 

And I’m the same sometimes your partner is just busy and you understand but you’re still like damnit, I need  you but I understand you have your own life.

sometimes it’s very hard to just flat out say, I kinda need you.

but yes the ones with mental illness often have less mental strength to deal with all the emotions, and it hits even harder. But in another way we are even stronger, because while feeling like this we’re still here. And that’s a wonderful thing.

You can do this!