Agender Pride Day
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That was how I have always felt about gender: an error. A blank space, rather. It just something that never seemed to register, no matter what other people kept trying to tell me.
-"There's no way you don't as identify as your birth sex."
-"It's normal to not feel gender."
-"You are female, even if you don't align with femininity."
-"Stop being that way."
Yada, yada, yada. I can go on forever about what was told to me. Mainly from total strangers and my young peers from when I was a kid. But as I matured, these same annoying words started to come from family.
Still, it didn't clock with me. No matter what people were saying to me, I just didn't have an internal sense of what identifying as a gender meant or even felt like, nor did I care all that much to try.
But I know that I am an agender person, and I am proud of it.
Happy Agender Pride Day, everyone!
