The transition from October to November was kinda awkward. For example, October definitely had its moments of oh hey, yeah, this KIND of has a summer vibe.
We're sleeping under a heating blanket, for crying out loud. There's no doubt where we are in the year. 😕
As I look back on November, the thread running through it is looking forward to Linzy's birthday show at The Sunset Tavern. We spent pretty much the entire month talking it up and, in doing so, remembering the period of her life from which Linzy intended to draw her set list.
Now, we had no idea what specifically was gonna be on that set list. Her band, though, would be a magnificent cross-pollination of The Little Lies and Midnight High performing these songs in that time capsule that brings back the memories of hearing each one brought to life. And I still do remember the heart that delighted in each one.
So yeah. Our November was filled with expectation. ☺️
In other news, I'm still getting distracted by the ability to take a picture like this with my cell phone...
In other, other news, November marked the beginning of my Christmas card efforts. Can't help that either because there are things I want to start now so they don't pile up in December. With that in mind, I inventoried the Christmas cards we have on hand going several years back in order to figure out the number I have still to buy.
Having done that quick inventory, I kicked off the process of writing this year's Christmas Letter, a two-pager sprint around the bases take on what we did this year. Thankfully, it's not the effort it used to be because I write a Month in Review blog post for every month of the year… so the process so far is me going through each of those blog posts and pulling anything of note regarding myself, Kimmer, Linzy, our cats, our doing's as a family, our doing's as a couple, and any insights that may have occurred along the way. ☺️
Aside from the expectation running through the month about Linzy's upcoming birthday show at The Sunset Tavern, there were also a few other gigs to complicate her month that included her private vocal tutoring and band rehearsals for her Sunset Tavern show.
Now, this end of the year has always been big on celebration not only because of Thanksgiving-Christmas-New Year events but because each of our birthdays lands here: Kimmer 'n Linzy in November, me in December. And so it was that on the day before Kimmer's birthday, we found ourselves on our way to the east side to meet up with our youth pastor, the Dick Clark of youth pastors because for the longest time the man did not seem to age, like, a single day.
Shortly after we arrive, Wally, our former youth pastor, the man who married us, shows up with that unmistakable beard of his and that patented grin that manages to make its presence known to the world even with a full beard in front of it. It's always good to see him. Always. It's essential, if I'm being honest, that he exists in the world somewhere because we do need someone to look up to, someone, yes, older and wiser. That age difference does make a difference even at our age.
Wally's on a very short list of people we turn to for advice when life gets especially calamitous. He's on a very short list of people with whom we compare notes: he was a youth pastor and we were in youth ministry. He's on a very short list of people we turn to for straight-up wisdom. And he does, he does leave us feeling cared for, cared about. He is and always has been a light in our lives whether that light made our lives brighter or that light was the light at the end of a tunnel.
Okay so that happened on Day 1 of Kimmer's birthday.
Yeah... these fall and winter days have so little daylight in 'em that we spread Kimmer's celebration across two days. So among the things we did on that second day, we stopped in at Top Pot Donuts along the Edmonds waterfront. HUZZAH!!!
We didn't go crazy, of course. We split an apple fritter. We split an old-fashioned donut. Kimmer's ordering a cup of coffee. And I have my thermos of hot tea I brought from home. So that's what we do. Kimmer hops in line to place her birthday order while I head upstairs to the library, this area set with tables and chairs with a back wall fitted floor to ceiling with bookshelves filled with books from one end of that floor to the other. It fully reminds us both of our first Top Pot experience in downtown Seattle next to the monorail many years ago after (or before, maybe?) an interview in the city. A lovely revisit of memory lane.
So yes. During the day of the second day we were out 'n about exploring. Afterward, we returned home to celebrate with the "kids". Finally. All of us under the same roof. 😁
Later, It's a nice scene around the table. A lot of incandescent light coming from the kitchen. A lot of incandescent light coming from the living room. A string of White Christmas lights hanging over the French doors that form the far end of our dining room. It's a lovely setting for singing Happy Birthday to Kimmer as she presents her birthday coffee cake. You see, for heatlh reasons, the cake has to be made in a just-so way and it's Kimmer with the baking chops to make it so. Basically it's a vegan cake. Works well for us because of the nutrition as well as keeping us away from nasty sugars and toxins that give our bodies and cognitions a hard time.
Highlights aside, it was a great pair of days, exploring about and spending time with people we love.
Plus the donuts. You know?
A week later, it's almost Linzy's birthday. It's November 21. Time for her birthday show at The Sunset Tavern.
Oh sure it was a bunch of things. It was a show at The Sunset Tavern produced by Linzy. It was a performance by Amy Hall and her band, a performance by Young-Chhaylee and his band. It was a date night. It was the first Linzy Collins headliner. But most of all…
That was the vibe from start to finish. The crowd buzzed with energy and an enthusiasm to engage with each of the performers, culminating in an enthusiastic round of Happy Birthday.
After the show Linzy was invited to perform at the Rabbit Box Theatre by the venue's booker who was in attendance this night. There were also a ton of people excited to speak with Linzy about her music, her voice, her performance. They were truly excited to share their experiences with her, to encourage her and, of course, to wish her Happy Birthday.
The show wound up being a wildly successful night for the Linzy Collins debut. It was next level for her, an inevitable mastery of both stage presence and performance. She charmed the crowd, engaged the crowd, and provided plenty of levity if not outright laughter. Her set list was a wonderful cross-section of human emotion and experience, of simple expressions and epic narrative. There are a lot of singles in this set list, a lot of songs to play on repeat.
Totally worth the wait. 😁😁😁
The next afternoon we're at the Pacha Collective, sitting in a VW bus with Linzy on her birthday. The bus is for real, by the way. The restaurant somehow parked it in the center (ish) of their restaurant and we're sitting around a table on a bench in the back of the bus enjoying our drinks. It's been a week so we're all tired. Linzy's show at The Sunset Tavern was the night before so she's super tired but jazzed at the same time. In the meantime, we're all enjoying this birthday celebration in a bubble inside a VW bus inside a restaurant. ☺️
And then the last days of our November: Death Valley. We left Tuesday morning, November 25, and returned home the following Tuesday, December 2. Our flight that took off from Paine Field in Everett left the ground at 9 in the morning, landing at Harry Reid Airport in Las Vegas a couple hours later. We're at the RoadSurfer pick-up location about 12:30, driving off the lot by 2:00 for some time driving around town gathering food and supplies. By the time we're officially headed out of town, the sun's set and it's a little after five. By the time we roll into our spot at Stovepipe Wells campground in Death Valley, it's a quarter after 7:00, full dark.
By the next morning we were part of a more close-knit experience with family. It's also a bit of a tech experience given that we've got a high capacity solar-powered battery with us and a starlink to provide WiFi out here in the middle of nowhere.
And it's also peaceful, perhaps our most peaceful yet, as Kimmer has a truck ton of reading and writing to do in her run up to a massive written and oral test that stands in the way of kicking off the work for her dissertation.
Out here, our rig isn't a tent. It's a Sprinter van. You can stand up in it. It sports a queen size bed in back, a bathroom in the middle, and a dining / work table in the front around which we play games with Kimmer's second cousin and his best friend in what inevitably turn into boisterously loud and funny encounters.
We are not "camping" like I would've thought of it back in the day. We definitely took our home life on the road, though, with family. And it is. It is a more close-knit experience. Or perhaps a more close up experience although with the most massive sky possible above us. We can even make out an arm of our own spiral galaxy, the Milky Way.
So yeah. We look up at the sky a lot. We indulge Kimmer's fantastic road cooking every few hours.
We join a community pot luck Thanksgiving dinner on Thanksgiving night. And then the next night, same place, same people (but for a few who already left), we enjoy The Great Leftovers Potluck.
Our time in the desert comes to an end by noon, Saturday. And because our flight home isn't until Tuesday night, we've chosen to decamp to the Desert Rose Resort in Las Vegas for the remainder of our vacation, checking in Saturday night to a lovely, comfy space with plenty of room to spread out and relax.
So we finish out November in Las Vegas, relaxing, studying, reading, writing, and enjoying a few hours each late afternoon/evening for excursions into the resort malls for food food and photo ops.
I've got a full first draft of our Christmas letter on its feet.