@lizthirose replied to your post “what does sexual attraction even feel like?”
Huh... so am I demi or ace, because I feel that way most of the time, only that I'm not sex-repulsed in general and can imagine having sex. Though there's only one person atm (actually the first one in my life) I'd be okay having it with...
Asexuality does not at all require you to be sex-repulsed - there are a number of aces who enjoy having sex or have a high sex drive. It’s only a matter of whether or not you feel sexual attraction, the aforementioned “looking at someone and feeling the urge to have sex with them”. If you don’t or almost never experience that, then congrats, you’re probably ace spec!
You can definitely be ace spec and still be interested in having sex with someone. A lot of aces enjoy the emotional intimacy, the physical pleasure, and/or pleasing their partner, so having sex or wanting sex doesn’t invalidate being asexual at all. The only defining characteristic is attraction, or rather, the lack of it. :)
Charlie, I'm really, really sorry, but I hate you. I just read your meta about why you think Crowley's gonna die and it makes so much sense that I just have to hate you right now. I know in the end it's TPTB that are responsible, but you wrote the meta and... there you go. How dare you?! Not Crowley :( (Okay, not TFW either, but still...) Now can you please write something nice? I'm unhappy. (And still sorry. Really. Cookie?)
I’m so sorry! *hands you a whole box of cookies*
Just for the record, I really hate myself too because I wouldn’t like Crowley to die, but once I saw this reasoning I couldn’t unsee it. Maybe I’m totally wrong? :P
I’ll try to write something nice. Maybe some Destiel meta? Though last night’s episode didn’t give us much material in that regard, except for the fact that Cas is gonna look for his grace and that will be tied to the spell to remove the MoC. (I’m speculating, but really… I’ll use the title card for season 10 again here).
If Crowley really dies this season, I want him to die in a good way, like Meg did. She died trying to protect her unicorn, maybe the King will die trying to protect his family, his squirrel.
Jeez! I probably just broke your heart even more. I’m so sorry! More cookies?
im sure u know this but i want to reaffirm that all of these anons who feel important enough to tell you they disagree with you and actually insult you are essentially trolls and just cant stand the idea of a ship that, in their minds, conflicts with theirs. newsflash ppl: not every post is open for debate!! go complain about ppl having the nerve to think differently on your own blog, and pray someone doesnt come along and suggest you "take some classes in logic before you open your mouth again"
I’ve dealt with bullies my whole life, and I only realised in my last year of school that laughing at the problem makes it go away. So that’s what I’m doing. Once you get that idea firmly into your head and it does actually help you not feel hurt by the insults. Plus, like you said, they’re butthurt trolls who think they found a piece of hateful propaganda, when what they actually found was a headcanon post as valid as one of their own.
Thank you for your support, anon. I’m gonna paste a bunch of the other supportive messages I got under the cut, because I’ll want to look back on them some other time and remember what it’s like to have support I never had when the same shit happened in school c:
Anonymous said: idk if you have been inundated my mean comments or not but you are awesome. keep on keein on
Anonymous said: you are rad ilu (:
sadhyr said: who cares the haters, you have a wonderful blog and you are a great writer. Do not go away, we love having you there n_n
Anonymous said: Don’t let hateful people get you down. We are here for you *grins*
Anonymous said: I hope you have a great day!!!!!!
Anonymous said: Hey Elmie just dropping by to say I love you. Also to give you a virtual hug.
super-happy-natural said: Hi, I saw that you’ve been getting a lot of bad messages, and I just wanted to send a positive one about love for you and your blog for when you wake up :) I’m sorry to hear about the hate you’re getting, but I hope it gets better :)
lizthirose said: After reading your long “Jensen is bi” post (and a few others) I just had that thought that I’d really like Jensen to spend an evening/day with Misha and John Barrowman. Came to my mind after seeing several gifs regarding Jensen’s body language…
I would give a piece of my soul to be a fly on the wall throughout that.
Anonymous said: with that post about jensen, i think you would have a field day with arin hanson from game grumps. he’s single handedly the most in denial bi-romantic ive ever seen. you should give game grumps a watch, not only are they hilarious, but the sexual tension between him and his co-host danny is off the charts. they say “im in love with you” at least once an episode but still say its all just jokes smh
(thanks for the rec, anon~)
and I already posted this one but I wanna add it here too
beginte said: *waddles in and offers a hug* Rude people are such horrid pests. Disagreeing is one thing, being an arse is another. And you’re a precious shiny creature! *showers you with plushy be toys* Here. I made a dick-shaped cake, wanna share?
lizthirose replied to your post: i’ll die before i eat fat free cheese
I don’t know what kind of fat free cheese you have over there, but we have low fat cheese (17% instead of 45%) and it’s pretty tasty.
i don't mind cheeses that are naturally low fat, like feta, but IMO fat free cheddar tastes like plastic. i'd rather have less of the real thing than more of the nonfat. plus my stomach doesn't like fat free for some reason... when i used to eat nonfat Greek yogurt it would make me nauseated, whereas the full fat settles really well.
lizthirose replied to your post: cascas babycas baby whatcas baby wh...
Help, what did I miss?! I closed the browser when the scene was one! -.-
Cas went in Dean's room and they had a conversation but it just didn't really meet the emotional closure necessary either for the episode or their relationship? Like Cas was pretty much just reassuring him that Sam doesn't hate him now and telling him he should have a rest and heal up, and Dean was like yeah okay. And then Cas left because he had "a female in the car outside". Like they're best fucking friends but a sixty second talk is enough after Dean just went through being a demon? And then Cas just left, even though there's nothing urgent taking him away??? And now they're just going back to cases???? what
lizthirose replied to your post “Random thought of the day: not that I’m getting married anytime soon,...”
You know that mermaids only will come to your wedding if you dress up like one yourself? :->
Bahaha that's what the bachlorette party is for ; ) Also yeah I'm really tempted to have an underwater ceremony. Maybe I'll compromise and be on a boat...
