Oct 15, 2024
Retro post from my Zucced fb page, Loki-Core: The Variant
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Retro post from my Zucced fb page, Loki-Core: The Variant
Retro post from my Zucced fb page, Loki-Core: The Variant
Retro post from my Zucced fb page, Loki-Core: The Variant To everybody who has ever felt this way, or does on a regular basis, I see you.
Retro post from my Zucced fb page, Loki-Core: The Variant
Retro post from my Zucced fb page, Loki-Core: The Variant
Retro post from my Zucced fb page, Loki-Core: The Variant
Retro post from my Zucced fb page, Loki-Core: The Variant
Retro post from my Zucced fb page, Loki-Core: The Variant * Say what you mean.
* Believe what we say (not what you assume we "really" mean).
* Don't teach children not to interrupt, especially using shame, and then act like autistic adults still taking that literally until we have to raise our hands to be listened to (awkwardly, because you have to face you've been hearing and ignoring our 47 false-starts), or autistic/ADH(d) adults doing it "incorrectly," are a problem. Teach us the unwritten rules of overlapping communication or GTFO. Learning by "the vibes" doesn't work for us and you know it. It's why you don't listen and interrupt us all the time, or think we're weird when we butt-in "wrongly". I've tried to get right by observation for 32 years and I'm still wrong all too often.
I suspect it's actually social hierarchy at play, and not a blanket set of rules, but I'd hate for that to be true because I actually care about other people, and it's always the same people shoved to the sidelines.