Hi! I am back after so long, but I am glad to be back! It's been a while..
today..my mind is really bothered with the topic family, especially a parent and a child...I know sometimes it is generational trauma, learnings and conditioning, but I assure you none of that matters if your child is unhappy with your words and actions. I am certainly not saying children are right in everything but maybe sometimes they are and parents failed to understand them..
Understand your child, they matter more than any learning, trauma or conditioning, what happened in past, let it be in past, connect with your present, your child, the one whom you love and the one who is just looking at you with eyes that just long for love..
Maybe it is hard for them to talk about how they feel, maybe they are not able to open up, maybe they feel misunderstood but isn't it the parent's duty to understand them. The world is not a nice place, we all know that..don't let your child feel bottled up and not be prepared to face the world..give them confidence, give them happiness, and most importantly listen to them and try to understand them, because if the parents will not then who in the world will?
And even children should understand their parents too..they might be holding in alot too, listen to them, hear them out, their struggles, their story, make them feel like that they are loved.
I would like to conclude my talk today, with a few words in last...this does not apply to all parent and children, not all parents are great and nor all children are right..
but one thing I would like to say for sure is, whether it be parents-child relation or any other relation..family, friends, wahtever it may be, always be kind and try to understand first before you act..as it may just cause more damage than making it better.
Always keep smiling everyone!
With this i sign off~
Nikki 🎀