insane to me how lorde has been open about her gender fluidity and sometimes being a man for like 2 years now and everybody ignored it with the excuse of it “being none of our business” even though she Literally said it publicly. and i’m going to post this and people are going to go “what are you talking about when did she say this?!?!” and that’s because general society tries their very best to pretend nonbinary people don’t exist and will avoid acknowledging otherwise until they absolutely have to













