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kaiser lowk bricked in his pants when you come up to him pale and anxious asking if you guys can head home….clinging to his arm so hard that your nails are digging through his sleeve…yeah yeah thats how he likes you
val my head in is in my hands in my fucking HANNNDS... need him to coo at you and pat your head like you're a frightened kitten while all he's thinking about is trapping u in bed for the next several days
Boo!
-🍉 @sneaky-melon
Lorelei jumps, frantically looking around until she spots Melon and laughs. "Hey, Melon! I haven't seen you in a while."
long time reader, first time random asker, would love to know your thoughts on pegging 🥰
I’m conflicted and curious 😂 I’ve written it once! Very willing to try again LMAO 😅
omg i have never seen a single other michael gandolfini fan on tumblr do u know ur a legend 😭
oh, there’s more of us, trust me 😈😈 but I’ll take it! 😂💕
hey! I’ve just recently accepted (aka connected all the dots) the fact that I’m a femme but I wanted to get some other femmes takes on how they identify with it to help me better understand it. What are some of the most important aspects of ur identity and what resources/books would u recommend for someone with less knowledge? 💕💕
yes ofc! i won't claim to be the arbiter of knowledge on this topic, but my femme identity wasn't something i had considered until i started dating my butch 3 years ago. for me, femme is dichotomized by my relationship to butches, ie a mutual respect and protection not found within heterosexuality. this is going to be a little long because there is much to say on this topic, apologies in advance (i like writing about and studying gender).
femininity in itself is a system that is naturalized to the convention of woman, sociologically speaking, and is indeed a form of gender conformity for people who identify with or are perceived as women (ofc this varies when accounting for the nuances of transfeminity and race, but generally speaking femininity as a construct is falsely attributed to "woman"). so in a sense, the gender conformity, as in historical accounts of butchness and femmeness, is itself the protection that i offer to my butch. it allows my butch access to a social system that he, as a masculine person perceived by society to be a woman, would not otherwise have access to.
i mostly read radical feminist texts, and to understand the system of femininity, the naturalization of gender as a construct, and the place that lesbianism has in a heterosexual society, i would recommend reading lesbian second wave author monique wittig. the category of sex and one is not born a woman are two essays by her that i recommend to everyone because they explain heterosexuality and how it constructed the conventions of "man" and "woman" around itself and embedded that into the fabric of western society well.
speaking personally, existing as a femme with my butch is comforting because i am allowed to explore femininity in a context removed from heterosexuality, removed from men. femininity is a performance, and when i perform it for my butch it feels right. i don't claim that my "version" of femininity is really entirely different from a heterosexual woman's or a bisexual woman in a relationship with a man, but the performance of it works in opposition to male ownership over my body. i am performing it for a lesbian, a butch, not a man, and that is what makes being femme fundamentally different from women performing femininity for men.
it all comes down to that performance, and specifically who the audience of that performance is. again, at the end of the day, i am gender conforming because women are expected to be feminine in their actions, appearance, and choices, but that gender conformity is a privilege i use as a protection for my butch and other butches i am friends with. i struggled with femininity when i was younger, i never performed womanhood to the degree that i was meant to due to the fact that i am a lesbian (and if you read one is not born a woman she goes into excellent detail on the inherent degendering of lesbians), and that is something that informs my choices and the femininity that i perform.
being degendered by heterosexual patriarchy, and choosing to conform to some of its expectations while rebelling through the act of being a lesbian and through performing femininity for a masculine figure who is not a man is the most important aspect of the femme identity to me. it almost in a sense adds insult to injury for heterosexual expectations. as i said before, femme is dichotomized by butch and the protection offered to butches through gender conformity that they don't have access to, so another really important part of my identity as a femme is how i can use that identity to help and protect butches.
i hope this helped!! like i said i'm not as much of an expert in femme writing (because honestly i've struggled to find my own resources) but i do recommend reading feminist texts first and foremost, because understanding the lesbian gender category in general is paramount understanding how femininity functions sociologically, and how adhering to it is a privilege not offered to certain members of the lesbian community.
I wanna learn more about foxtrot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HELL YEAH OKAY!!!
thank you for asking :DD
okay so uhhh im gonna give you the basics and if you want more ill give you all of their character lore :))
Foxtrot is a little uhh. code name they have :))( the reasoning for which is a part of @agoodpairofsocks 's worldbuilding n stuff... i can elaborate if you want OR you can go ask them about rich inc/ the mortal men if you wanna know more :))) Their actual name is Dakota Alcubierre. They're Mexican, and were born in Mexico, but moved to a us-mexican border town in texas when they were 5-6 and grew up there. They're amab genderqueer(they/them) and gay :))
They're 22(during the storyline, which, for the most part, takes place in late 1999) and 6'4" lmao uhhh
personality wise, theyre very spontaneous. they dont plan shit out at ALL. theyre very much a "well i havent died yet so i must be doing something right" kinda person. they love people. like a lot. social guy :)) theyre pretty goofy and they love to have fun. they know like. closeup magic and shit (they were a very bored child) theyre super loyal and they dont feel neutral about ANYONE they interact with. either they'd take a bullet for you or they hope you get hit by a train.
theyre confrontational, and rarely do they keep an opinion to themself. theyre kind of weird and they embrace it fully. theyre loudly and unappologetically themself. while theyre hard to piss off, and most the time will laugh at you if youre being a dick, if they find themself in an argument, they tend to psychoanalyze a lot. they can be immature at times -- when they find a situation stupid they lighten it up by any means. despite this, they are rational and solution oriented in serious situations.
theyre uh, chock full of religious trauma lmao and can become stiff and hard to work with when similar or related topics are present(both physically and metaphorically)
they can be sort of touchy feely with their friends -- always hanging off someones shoulder
uhhh yeah thats the basics
i have a fuckton more lore if you want
veterandouglas said: Okay, now that I understand the game... “You’re as randomly lethal and entirely confused as you ever were.” Answer: ⁂♔”
@conflagrationsstyle This sassy child is powerful, that much is plain to see, and on an order that she’s never seen before. It radiates from her, right down to the masterwork of her fingers, but she is still a child, too proud, to ready to bark. Whatever rift ripped these two to the same place held up a perverse mirror to the other, and it was enough to elicit a deep chuckle from the “lesser” dragonic being. “Ye reckon yerself diff’rent ta those ‘afore ye, then?” Lorelini is amused, and under her ridged beak, her fangs play in a grinning shape. “Th’way ye so childishly lash out wif yer considerable inherited might, destroying all it sae much as touch, beyond yer control?” ***Come on, My Child, you’re so close...DO IT*** What does it matter to a damned Norixious that some brat goes face to face? That with her icy span, she hangs haughtily in the air? The grin changes lowly, slowly, into a sneer. “Ah called ye randomly lethal fer tha’ very reason. But yer confusion is clear, too. Ye confuse delusion fer power, an’ power fer strength. Both o’which liable te get us killed, ‘ere, an’ tha’ keeps us both from our higher purposes.” ***She’s just a hatchling, imagine the POWER you’d get...*** The dragon of her hertiage looms over, turning her chin to the side and up, and something deeper, more mad, claws behind the bottomless green of her eyes. “We were called ‘ere, make nae mistake. An’ if ye raise rime and hoarfrost o’er anything we can use as clue, there’s less chance we get ‘ome. By me name, Lorelini Norixius, ah’ll work wif ye te get back. But yer inferiority complex won’ help ye.” ***Offer her up to Cyäegha and become the terror of REALMS!*** The madness threatening at the reaches of her mind is stronger here, and the golden scaled earthbound has no interest in dilly dallying about. It’s clear when she turns her back and starts walking off that she hasn’t any issue setting the pace to escape. She might be a brat, but they can help each other, as long as she doesn’t get left behind first.
lore i can’t stop thinking about your friends being soooo freaked out by ness
oh vic… they’re so unnerved by him. i do think that he initially makes a good impression on your friends. he clearly adores you, he’s very attentive and caring. far better than any man you’ve been with before even if he seems… clingy, to say the least. you don’t seem to mind, and they trust you.
it doesn’t take long for your friends’ opinions to sour around alexis. he’s not just clinging, he’s insufferable in his need to hover. if you’re together, he’s glued to your side or back. you always have your location on for him, even though you refused such surveillance by any partner previously. it’s especially creepy how he always seems to… Know things about you. you get your period in the middle of a hang and, somehow, ness was already driving over to pick you up with a heating pad in hand.
the thing that Really freaks your friends out is how ness looks at them when they get too close to you, physically or emotionally. a friend lingers by your side for too long, whispers in your ear, and ness is staring at them with the darkest look they’ve ever seen. its a consistent reaction to anyone entering your space for too long that isn’t alexis. you are very luckily keen, and keen to him, and always divert with a request lobbed his way. can he grab your purse, fill your water, grab you a snack?? waiting on you at your behest alwayyyys drags ness out of his frankly murderous, one-sided staring contests. your attention is the one thing standing between alexis and a serial killer arc i fear
