Who would throw the other in the pool: Axel would most definitely throw Lori in the pool - always.
Who is the better carer when the other is sick: Lori is better at taking care of Axel when he’s sick but Axel babies her when the roles are reversed, making sure she’s taken care of as well - he’s just not quite as good at it.
Who would force the other to do extreme sports with them: HA Axel would obviously drag Lori into all the extreme sports.
Who would cook the better romantic dinner: Either of them in the kitchen would probably be a nightmare, but they both gave fair attempts - and would end up eating out.
Who would build the blanket fort in the living room: Depends on the situation but I could see Axel doing it more often than Lori?
Who would have the best holiday ideas: Lori, because she’d be obsessed with making it the perfect event while Axel’s more go with the flow and wouldn’t put much thought into anything in particular.
Who would need to clean out the other’s stuff to make room for their own: Axel would have to find room for his own stuff among Lori’s things.