#love expectations

[phanphandom-idjit]

Low expectations

I, legit, was in the middle of setting up an evening cereal and my sister's favorite cereal is Fruit Loops. Well, there was only enough for one bowl and she really likes them. So, I called out to her and, I was feeling kind, asked her if she was ok with me taking the last of the Fruit Loops. She walked into the kitchen, wide eyed, and comments about how she wishes her future husband is like this. IT'S JUST CEREAL. Is today's expectations so low that in order to be husband material, you need to offer the last of cereal?!?

[themildotaku]

Yuri on ice have set my expectations for what love should look like extremely high. I guess I have to start accepting the fact that it's just not meant for me in this lifetime. I am 30 already and never had this kind of deep understanding and passion and mutual fascination with anyone. Darn, animes setting my expectations high.

[bloodstainedcuriosity]

Best pet for children

I think the best pet you can give to a child is a fish.

 It teaches them that sometimes you can put so much love and attention to something and it still wont give a fuck. sure, puppies are sweet and lovable but they build up an unrealistic expectation of affection. 

I believe that a fish can prepare them for some of life's realities.

-and when it dies u can just flush the fucker down the toilet 

[figlia-della-natura]

Still can't get over this chat🙉🙊 he will always be remembered by me 😍😍

[robbielei]

What I think I want vs what I know I want

I've been a little bit of an insecure lump of a person lately which happens every so often. I know I'm great and blah blah blah, but sometimes I blame myself for being single and convince myself I'm forever alone and all of those unhealthy things. Anyway, besides the point, this had got me thinking about what I want from guys and to a certain degree people in general. I keep telling myself that I want people to give me grand gestures of "your so pretty" "I've been beside myself thinking about you lately", etc. Yeah, see, silly grand gestures that are overstated and overly flattering, and not all that genuine because they are generic.

Upon reflection that isn't what I want at all! I want someone to tell me that they admire my will to be myself. That they like seeing how my eyes and face change with my emotions. I want someone to fall in love with the way I read books (the constant half smile, the one sided conversations, the tears). I want someone to love how genuine I am and celebrate the small things, and especially the small things that are wholly unique to me. Screw the flashy shit. I don't want other people to be apart of someone sharing a moment with me. I want it to be intimate, lovely, genuine, and perfect. Small gestures and moments are more special than grand ones because two people have a more special connection than two people plus everyone in the room. 

[allaboutjaz]

[Reflection] Push-Pull Relationship / 'He who cares least, controls the relationship'

He who cares least, controls the relationship…

What do I have to say about this?

F*ck that! I don’t want a relationship that weighs in on who cares/loves the other more than the other. I prefer it to be UNCONDITIONAL or at least MUTUAL. Love for me isn’t…

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[the-separation]

When I first started talking to my ex, I literally fell out of my seat when he randomly facebook instant messaged me. Literally knocked me out of my seat I was so excited and infatuated.

If that is how the wrong guy can make me feel, I can't even imagine how excited I'll be when a better fit comes along.

And I won't settle for anything other than to be blown away.