#low vibes

[thejourneyoflifewords]

Thou shall not let low-vibin' sketchy-ass energy penetrate thy aura!

[laadee-da]

[aehr-canter]

This gives me Nezuko vibes

[angeliquesthoughts]

Feeling seasonal depression already or something, idek

[ninepentz]

Our misguided anger

One thing I learned from constantly being forced to experience problematic people through out my life, even being one myself sometimes, is that when people get caught up in the pettiness of things.

The passive aggression, revenge, projection, bait/trigger, evil eye whatever it is, that mostly tells me they haven't reached the point of evolving past that phase onto "I'm ready for peace phase" so to me it let's me know that person is still immature mentally/emotionally, not thinking of their future self, not self aware, not on the road to healing. It also shows that they aren't really organized internally.

Like for me I'm the worst person to be around when I'm doing bad, when problems are stacking up. I'm most problematic when there's something crappy going on in my life or I'm having some issue in one area that won't go away.

So when people are stagnant in the phase of pettiness, they are mostly dealing with something and coping with it by taking out that frustration on others. Idk why but I've noticed some people just love being in drama.

So knowing what I know now, I associate that with someone who hasn't outgrown a certain phase of misguided anger.

Sometimes that anger we throw onto others is our unhappiness with ourselves, unmet goals, health issues, failures, all types of personal things. That's the root of those problematic behaviors..

Immature phase=

Pettiness, passive aggression, bait/trigger, revenge, prob starting.

Mature phase=

Self reflection, observing your own triggers/anger before acting out, not easily trigged anymore, not taking things personal (important), accountability, self control.

It's similar to how a baby eventually matures into a full grown adult, even our emotions, intellect, has it's own phases of growth, and if you're lucky you go through each phase and master them. Me currently I haven't mastered my anger but I'm seeing growth and maturing little by little. Handling things way better than my past self :) if you're reading this and you relate, I hope you get to experience how peaceful it is to be unbothered and in your own lane. And when coming across people who haven't healed yet, seek to understand and observe, instead of react. I feel like that is a healing experience within itself, maybe even by you not adding to the fire you extinguish their bitter flames in the process too <3

✨️Nine of Pentacles✨️

[t3rr3nc3]

[victorious-virgo]

There are gud days...bad days...then there are days where I'm just "meh" 😕

[simplecatgirl]

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