#luxifers

[vacationadventuresociety]

luxifers replied to your post “Neil Gaiman just replied to me on twitter and im geeking out”

Cool af, what did he say? What did he respond to?

i asked him something about the different editions of Norse Mythology bc i wasnt sure what the difference was and he answered :)

[monstox]

When you make fun of something you try to normalise it and that's what happening w bitch. When something is normalised people stop seeing it as something bad or problematic and making racism seem normal is not what we fucking need rn so im fucking with you on this, this is just cheap trash and shouldn't be considered a joke,

YES THANK YOU FRIEND!!! they are just brushing racism away, there is NEVER an excuse to be racist even if its “just for laughs,” racist jokes are the cheapest jokes tbh!!

[fuckyouracecourse]

Wait did you identify as bi first too omg? I did identify as it in the beginning cuz i was like "im just as attracted to girls as to boys, i must be bisexual" but then i realised that the reason that i was equally attracted to all genders was because i wasn't attracted to any at all!! I hadn't even heard about asexuality before but then a girl told me about her being grace i was lik wtf is this and how can i relate so much to this?? I found a community that understood me and i felt so happy

Yup! I called myself bisexual for quite a few years. To be fair, when I was in high school, the general public was barely coming to terms with people being gay, let alone asexual. I lived in the middle of a bible belt and while there were a couple of gay kids in my school (there were probably more, but they would have been understandably closeted), it just. Wasn’t really talked about.

I honestly never considered that I might be asexual until about… three years ago? It never occurred to me, and I had a very different understanding at the time of what it meant. I think I may have been one of those people who figured asexuals were incapable of deeper emotion or companionship, idk. I was also put off from it for a few years after that because of… well. Let’s just say mainstream academic research into asexuality is questionable at best. It took me awhile to figure out that ‘asexual’ didn’t have to mean ‘incapable of romance.’ I write romance for a living, and I love it. Biromantic kind of came along later. I’m still not entirely sold on the split model of attraction and sometimes would rather just ID as asexual, but. For now it seems like the best descriptor for me so it works.

[idiotxque]

✔️ 10/10 would recommend

omg thank you sm