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Känns okej

Jag lider av en sällsynt lyckad kombination av brist på grundläggande mänskliga karaktärsdrag. Dessa mina brister är total avsaknad av självkritik, ödmjukhet och sjukdomsinsikt. Nu kanske du känner sympati eller skrattar skadeglatt åt mina tillkortakommanden men vad du än väljer att göra så gör det mig det samma. För jag är mer än nöjd med resultatet. För mina brister innebär att jag i alla lägen tror att det jag nyss gjort är det bästa jag någonsin gjort. Samma gyllene läge gäller givetvis det jag fortfarande har kvar att göra. Summa summarum, Vad jag än tar mig för kan det bara bli bättre än det jag redan gjort. Och det var som ni redan vet riktigt bra gjort.

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granjakt. #lyckad #eventuelltillegalverksamhet https://www.instagram.com/p/BrgGgx1BxkZ/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1p7l0c4gm1c8t

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Hi, I hope you're alright! I'm needing some advice can u help? So I had this friend who I'm ( or I was) very close but then we came the 10grade and we meet new friends, we (me her and our other 2 friends) became very close, now we are finishing 11grade and I feel like they are very close and leaving me behind.. I feel like shit, they are the only thing that I've got and the only people that I trust, I realy don't know what to do. this is not the first time that happens to me. please help me! tnx

Hi dear, I’m doing good! 

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I went through a nearly exact situation two years ago, and it’s not easy. It feels terrible. Maybe it’ll help you to know how I dealt with it. Remember though that every person and situation is different and requires different solutions depending on the factors involved. 

For me, my situation was a little different because my friends and I weren’t as close as you and your friends sound. Those friends of mine were not treating me well and I was too intimidated to talk to them about it, so I ended up peacefully breaking off the group. I had far fewer friends afterward (about two for an entire year) but I was a MILLION times happier. I felt free and not so shut down all the time. I experienced actual healthy friendship and it felt so good.

That was my solution. If your situation gets worse and you feel helpless and sad all the time, maybe consider it. Cutting people off can be very therapeutic. 

Don’t jump to conclusions, however. Doing something like that when it’s not needed can make things messy. Firstly, I would suggest sitting your friends down and letting them know how you’re feeling. After all, they’re not mind-readers! You have to let them know the emotions you’re feeling. If, even then, they continue to leave you behind and ignore your feelings, that’s when you should consider your friendship with them, and whether or not it’s worth keeping.

It’s scary to think of not being without people who you think are the only people you’ve got. That was my situation as well. That’s why I stuck with my unhappiness, figuring it was better to have shitty friends than no friends. And yes, after I cut off my friends, I had none for a little bit. But I was a lot happier, and with that happiness, I was more open to new people, and that’s how I got more friends again! And now, two years later, I have another group of friends, about 10, and I love them and couldn’t be happier. So there is hope!! 

Please stick it through. I hope everything works out! Let me know how you’re doing soon! <3