I'm gonna say this right here and right now because this gets overlooked at. When straight girls fetishise gay men, I always see a few lgbt+ people defend them and use "I'm lgbt+ I think it's okay.". This is stupid, and I mean VERY stupid. If you are not a gay man, you cannot just waltz in and throw your 2 cents in to defend straight girls. Just because you are in the community does NOT give you permission to talk on behalf of EVERYONE in it. ex: gay cis ppl talking for bi trans ppl's issues
You’re so right magic-archer.
I’m bisexual but I know that gay men do not like being fetishized and that is why I bring it up because even though I’m LGBT+, I still have a responsibility to help and protect my gay brothers. And at the same time, I shouldn’t get pass on fetishizing gay relationships either.