#make me dinner

[scottyfitzceo]

Make dinner for me my beautiful male wife

(He, in his own words, was a terrible cook)

[judeofarc]

I'M the man in this relationship

[euesworld]

"You are sexy in the kind of way where I would make you dinner and listen to your thoughts as we sat under the moon.."

Sounds like you need a night time picnic in your near future?? - eUë

[marcela13mars]

Yooo I read this fanfic weeks ago!!

it's called 'Dinner For Two' and written by walkerismychoice so check her stuff it it's so good PB even knows it!

[silentvoidtreeshop]

this is probably the cheesiest post I'll ever make but. oast night my boyfriend and i were practicing swing dance (we're taking classes and I'm having a very hard time getting the rhythm down), and after we were done and took a break, i caught myself slouching and tried to correct my posture.

my boyfriend looked at me and said "you're doing it wrong."

i said "what? but this is what my mom told me to do" (my mom is a physical therapist)

he sat for a moment and said "how long ago did she tell you that?"

"a few years"

"that was to compensate for the weigh of your chest."

he was right, i had an enormous chest when my mom helped me with my posture, but I've had a reduction since then, and the weight on my chest is not as significant.

my jaw fell to the floor. "then how am i supposed to do it?"

"well, first relax your lower back," he said "youre over compensating and its pushing the s curve further in."

i relaxed, into what i thought was considered slouching.

"good, that's a lot straighter. now try to pull your shoulders down and back"

so i did, still trying my best to keep my lower back relaxed. i had to put my neck in a weird position due to the hump ive developed from my scoliosis, but then he gave me a thumbs up and said "yeah, that looks great! that's probably the straightest you'll be able to get it before you start PT next week."

i stared at him, wide eyed again "so you mean to tell me I've been correcting my posture the wrong way for years, and have actually been making it worse?"

"yup."

and then something just....clicked. the fact that my boyfriend was able to play close enough attention to my body to know exactly what i was doing wrong, something my own mother had never picked up on, because she was either too busy to take a full examination of me, or i was embarrassed to ask her for help because i didn't want to be scolded for my poor posture.

and then i started crying.

the fact that someone actually paid attention to my body. knew it well enough to notice the slight changes and intricacies. he'd spent the whole dance practice session helping me un-tense my muscles to move easier, an issue I'd been dealing with, again, for years, and never really thought about.

that he really looks at and loves my body, this body that I'm so insecure about, and worships it and its flaws. that he helps me take care of my body because he knows i won't. that he picked up on the things my own mother, a trained physical therapist, never stopped to look at.

I've never had someone consider me and my body before.

even i don't do that.

i think i finally, truly know what it feels like to be loved. and it just made me fall in love with him all over again.

[truenoodle]

Hobby:

making unreasonable demands of my cat

[circuszirconium]

So many things on my dash just making me think of you and how I want to hang out and watch tv.