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[ruseriousbro]

Married guy problems #ruseriousbro #gettingmarried2021 #gettingdivorced #gettingmarried2022 #divorcequotes #marriagesucks #brocode #wifeysworld #wifetobe (at Hell) https://www.instagram.com/p/CYWNYztLSg0/?utm_medium=tumblr

[depressedmodernman]

The Scam of Marriage and Sex...

These past few months I've been spending A LOT of time and work towards being a better father and husband. I've pretty much stopped all alcohol, have started taking Ritalin, got off social media, taken on more emotional responsibility with the kids, worked on communication with the Overlord, and am really trying to be the best husband and father I can be. And a lot of the feedback from the Overlord is that she had more time and energy when I'm taking more of the emotional load. Plus, she supposedly finds that to be more attractive (very allegedly on that one).

Now, I already require A LOT of work to keep myself sane and focused, especially in a demanding job as the primary breadwinner. Plus, having two special needs children doesn't make it easy for an autistic person. So needless to say, I'm working on all these things, AND communication to be a better partner, to where I'm very exhausted a lot of the time. So yes, I don't put effort into being romantic. First, the Overlord's hormones are out of whack so I don't even know what's going on. Second, every time there's a hint that I'd like to be teased (for example a recent moment where the Overlord asks me to do something for her, so I reply with "what do I get?" Then she flat out says "Well, I'm not flashing you if that's what you want."). Third, I'm just exhausted, simple. I'm putting all this work into being a better partner and father that I was sure there'd be more connection and sex.

So we're talking about if we'd have an affair, and I mention it would be hard for me to do so because I prefer having a connection with someone to really enjoy sex. What surprised me was her response of "Oh, I could just have sex with any guy. I'm good for that. The only reason we're not having sex is because you're not romantic." So I ask to clarify "Wait, are you saying you're ok to have sex with any other guy, even without romance?!" And she just gives an answer of "Yes. You're my husband so I'd expect you to be romantic, but with anyone else it's just sex so I don't care about that. The only reason I wouldn't have an affair is it would be too much work to organize it."

So let me get this straight. If I were just some schmo that could organize a time and place for sex, that'd be fine? But even though I'm putting in all this work to be a better husband and father, am exhausted from it, as well as providing a big portion of this great life she has....she still has the expectation for me to be romantic?! AND even without giving any hint or tease that she's even sexually interested in me?!

And I often think if I didn't get married, how she'd always feel a little bit iffy if I weren't happy in the bedroom. How it could be easier to just pack up my shit and find someone else. I hope some you g men come across this post and realize marriage is a scam and just a trap of misery.

[depressedmodernman]

And The Reason for Porn...

So lately the Overlord has been going through the perimenopause hell stage of marriage. There's really not much of a difference between it and regular days of marriage. I mean, sex was fairly non-existent already, Hellspawn are still assholes, and I pretty much am intoxicated 24/7. The biggest things are the random hot flashes and now my very existence to be a reason for my Overlord's anger. So really, no big deal.

The other thing to add is my Overlord has gone to wearing grandma moo moo dresses around the house. OK, fine, whatever. I guess when hormones change so does the concept of trying to look attractive. And last night she heads to bed while I'm watching TV with the dogs. No other indicator of anything else going on. Considering I'm already burnt out from the day and don't want to get up to let dogs out, I chill on the couch for a few more hours and mindlessly scroll TikTok and spend quality time with my Chinese spy. Eventually I get to bed and what do I find?

The Overlord wearing some sexy lingerie in bed. Passed out, of course. The next morning I was told how she was in "the mood" and waited for me to come to bed. Now mind you, there was absolutely no indication from her that anything was happening. In fact, I often lay on the couch when she goes to bed so I have some peace and quiet to myself.

Now it's the next evening and I come to bed. Guess what the Overlord is doing? Wearing the same crappy nightgown that she always wears and playing on her Nintendo switch. In other words, the clothing that speaks "don't ever touch me."

And I'm willing to bet in our next therapy session I'll hear something about how she wanted to initiate sex and I didn't come to bed. So once again, my sex life is pornography that she'll blame as ruining our marriage, yet it's the one dopamine hit that's keeping me sane.

Damned if you do. Damned if you don't.

[thesinglewife]

When you marry a Mama’s Boy and less of a Man because he always disrepects his mom from of everyone so its also easy for him to do that to me. Always 🗣🗣🗣 raise a voice so that everyone thinks his the only man of the house! ***k me! Even our toddler is always scared when he hears his tati and cover his ear with his hands 🙅‍♀️💆

He doesnt make him much of a huMAN or a much more a Husband

[paintingqueen1973]

Are you fighting with your husbands? I am. #divorce . . . . . #legalzoom #marriagesucks #marriagehelp #fighting #fightingwithmyself #fightingwithmyfamily #myhusbandandi #stuckinthehouse #ihatecleaning #cleaningsucks #passiveaggressive #passiveaggression #passiveaggressivemuch #beingmarried #puppettherapy #puppets #puppetshow #puppetlife #puppetmaker https://www.instagram.com/p/B-7kLcGBxj0/?igshid=1lhyi30cyxti

[cultivateyourbeauty-blog]

What would you do if you are being verbally abused by your partner? After soul-searching, I finally admit it. I am in a relationship that is making me feel bad about myself. I didnt want to give up on it but I also can’t stand the idea of spending the rest of my life fearing that I’ll be torn down whenever I begin to feel good about myself or whenever my spouse is in a bad mood. I know it isn’t good for me. Just as important, I know that it isn’t good for my kids to grow up believing this is the way people who are supposed to love each other should treat each other. Decisions to leave can be hard, but verbal abuse leaves scares behind... #decisionsdecisions #lifeistoshorttobeunhappy #selfcare #mypurposeinlife #marriagesucks #walkaway #behappyandsmile https://www.instagram.com/p/BwaMjKPni7G/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1g3zsl6r53bbk

[wgss01-blog]

What if Marriage Is Bad for Us?

In the text by  Laurie Essig and Lynn Owens, the authors discuss the reasons behind marriage and why Americans feel the need to get get married so badly. Then they dive into why marriage can be very bad for us. The reasons given for marriage being good were that main stream media and politics have convinced the general public that marriage is what we need and is the foundation of a good society. In the article they say, “ . According to Freedom to Marry, the national organization behind much of the gay-marriage movement, marriage is “the most powerful expression we have for the affirmation of love and commitment, a source of social recognition . . . that hold(s) two people together through life’s ups and downs.”  I found it interesting how well of a job the authors did with distributing this notion. For example, they reference Marx Groucho by saying, “Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who wants to live in an institution?" I completely agree with the article and the facts that the authors presented. Marriage is glorified perhaps more than any other institution in America but it mostly works out for the best when those getting married d are wealthier, white people who aren’t in financial troubles. For everyone else, if you get married, good luck. 

-Perry Worthey

[wise-kracker-blog]

#funnymeme #nelsonmandela #marriage #marriagesucks #divorce #divorcesucks