Welcome to today’s pick-a-card reading for the month of May! This will be all about what is going on in your love life and is intended for those currently looking for a new relationship.
See which of the three cards below stands out to you or resonates with you, and scroll down to the correct pile 1, 2, or 3.
Pile 1 - Leap
Create with enthusiasm, embrace that youthful spirit you might have hidden away, and explore the world with curiosity. You may be a seeker naturally, or you may tend to shy away from the unknown. Either way, this is what to strive for in the next chapter of your life. Leap and the universe will catch you. Don't be afraid to take risks, or do things you wouldn't normally do. Of course, don't be completely careless, but see what happens when you let go of control a little, release worries, and see what the universe has in store for you. This can be really difficult but will shift your energy and prepare you for bigger and better things, including an amazing new relationship.
Someone is coming into your life that feels like you've been looking for them all of your life. In the past, you might have had a hard time finding new people if you've been afraid to step out of your comfort zone. In this place of excitement and trying new things, you will meet. This could potentially be someone you've already met, or even tried a relationship with before, but if there is a shift in energy, things may be different this time around. You are reaching a new level of confidence and competence, and as you start to enjoy life more, other people will continue to be drawn to you.
You may have a fear of getting too deep with someone new. If you've been hurt in the past, especially if this was by the same person, this would make sense. Try to change your mindset a little. See this as a new opportunity to learn and grow, and from that point of view, potential heartbreak may be easier to handle. It isn't about finding someone to spend the rest of your life with, it's finding someone who you connect with in the moment. Try to focus more on the present, as we have no idea what the future will hold. You have the potential to have a really fun relationship with someone, and in addition, build a strong foundation for something that could last a really long time. It all depends on what you put first as your top priority. If you try to force commitment, it may not work out in the way you would like it to.
My best advice for the month of May is to be open to new opportunities and experiences. New things are waiting for you once you get out of your comfort zone a little.
Pile 2 - Deep Replenishment
It doesn't seem like you will be getting into a new relationship in the month of May, because you still need to heal a little more first. Don’t worry, it is for the best, and in the near future, once you heal, a new relationship is on your horizon. For now, it's important to spend some time alone, do some soul-searching and reflection, learn from the past, and heal old wounds. These wounds could be from a difficult breakup or relationship, or from other trauma that is still holding you back from your full potential. You deserve a little break to put things in order and work through any fears, anxiety, or insecurities you have. This is not to say that a new person would not be able to help you through these difficult times, but it's hard to be in a strong relationship when you aren't at your best.
You need to fill your own cup through self-care and self-love. You cannot expect someone else to be able to fill your cup for you, and you need to put in the work. I believe in you, and you are not alone. There is nothing wrong with taking some time for yourself. In addition, don't be afraid to lean on friends. You are not a burden, and if you are being treated like such, you need to find different people to be around. This is your time to heal, not to be shamed.
Once you've taken the time to really rest, retreat and reflect, you can begin to build yourself back up again by trying new things and putting yourself back out there. It's hard to do things like this during Covid, but consider joining a new online club or class, finding a group of people to exercise with, or practice a new hobby at home. Maybe even consider starting a new business. This is your time. Use it to the best of your ability. Don't worry about what other people will think, again, this is your time and your life.
The month of May might consist of a lot of rest as you are healing. Give yourself this time, without comparison or shame. But don't be afraid to push yourself a little once you feel ready. There are people who want to help you, and lots of resources, so do some research, reach out to some friends, and embark on a new path in your life.
Pile 3 - Dance With Life
There are some really great cards here to indicate a beautiful relationship for you, like the Lovers and Ace of Cups. There's love, compassion, overflowing emotions, hope, renewal; all of these things that you want in a relationship are coming to you. Be enthusiastic and hopeful, and have some patience; things are happening at the right time. You have all of eternity to be with this person if you chose, so there is no rush. This does seem like a relationship that could last for a long time, of course, relationships are two-sided, but it seems like you will feel the same way about each other.
You make them feel like a kid again. There's a sense of innocence and nostalgia that makes both of you just want to have fun and spend time together. It feels simple and special just like the first time. There's a possibility that you have known each other since childhood, potentially even having a young romance, and in that case, it will really feel like you were back in that time. Whether this is figurative or literal, you simply feel at home and safe with this person. You know that they will never hurt you, and this is unfortunately pretty rare to find.
Be patient, and be cautious of how you are making other people feel around you. If you have a chance at a reunion with someone, don't be afraid to check it out. Nothing has to come from it, but you can still explore your options. You are in a really great place in your life right now or are getting there, and therefore this pile feels the most ready to be in a healthy committed relationship. Of course, just take what resonates with this, but have faith that you can find the right person for you.
In the month of May, explore. See all of your options, and don't settle! You've got this and I'm so excited for the next chapter in your love life, so you should be too!
Conclusion
Good luck to everyone and remember that it is not a race, and there is nothing wrong with you if you are not currently in a relationship! Remember to have fun and enjoy life, and as you boost your confidence your attractiveness will grow both inside and out. Have an amazing May and I’ll see you soon!
🌼 MAY 2023 Monthly Tarot ASMR Pick A Card Reading (Energies and Advice)
Hi guys, here's a pick a card monthly reading for May 2023 aka Taurus/Gemini season. It's a bit different from my normal monthly reading as I haven't included separate parts for love, career, etc. This time I'm reading the cards as a whole for the vibes I'm getting. I'm using two of my newest decks for the first time in this reading: Tarot of Mystical Moments and Egyptian Gods Oracle Deck.
This is an ASMR video so please wear headphones for the best experience~
Hope you enjoy the reading and stay tuned for new videos to come, including seasonal readings for Summer 2023 ❤️
