#middle sibling

[random-polls-offical]

What sibling are you?

Oldest sibling

Older middle sibling

Younger middle sibling

Youngest sibling

I'm an only child

Secret 6th option I haven't thought of

Results

Voting ended onJan 30

[cara0765]

i lied.put your books down for a second and lets talk abt how mira sorrengail is the embodiment of the middle sibling stereotype

this girl has been on violet's side since day 1. violet is forced into riders quadrant??no problem i'll make a corset to protect her. violet is falling for xaden riorson?? i'll cut his dick off if he hurts her and soo much more. yet i feel that she's soo overlooked, like do u realize how betrayed she must hv felt when she realized that brennan was alive and violet knew but didn't tell her?? (ik violet had her reasons but still) or how abt the time when she realized that she was the last person to know abt venin xaden?? like this girl has been violets ride or die since she was born and even her father told violet to trust no one but mira and yet somehow mira is always the one who's not in the loop.

i mean think abt it yr big brother has a country that he's been working for past few years , your younger sister is busy with her boyfriend and ur just where u were (help, i'm still at the restaurant) she even said it in onyx storm "Violet has Dad’s books. You have Aretia" both of her siblings hv their goals sorted out and she feels like all she can do is help from the sidelines. but the truth is that no matter how much she does it's always kinda overlooked (violet's probably the only person to appreciate her and maybe drake)

what i feel is that mira needs a more important role and stronger storyline in the next books as she is portrayed as such a strong character and we haven't seen enough of that

[puppyboiisgay]

Gods I need a big brother who will rail me rough as hell while our little brother fucks my face with his hand on my throat.

[aavpdyapping]

that being said. I do really detest the whole "your birth order says a lot about you" bullshit, especially when it turns into a pissing contest about who got treated the worst by your parents.

"ALL eldist siblings will-" "ONLY middle children will understand" "being the youngest ALWAYS means-" SHUT UP!!!! no it doesn't!!! I will say that yes there are trends, like the whole "elder children, especially daughters, tend to get parentified" does have merit. does that mean ALL eldest children deal with that? No. does that mean that ALL eldest children were so nice and caring and protective of their younger siblings? absolutely not lmao.

if you have abusive parents they will abuse you reguardless of birth order. sure, you may have faced a different tyoe of abuse than your siblings, but that doesnt mean the abuse didn't happen. parents will push their children into harmful roles reguardless of birth order. just because some have a common experience does not mean everyone does, and trying to double down and "prove" these things just cause more harm and create more expectations on how you "should" be treated based on your birth order.

instead of complaining about older/middle/younger siblings, put the blame where it deserves to be, the parents.

[doylldonmagar]

I sincerely believe that middle and youngest sibling stereotypes are generally/often accurate, while oldest sibling stereotypes are inaccurate in the majority of situations, and in this essay I will

[theletterboxstuff]

The middle child urge to be noticed for once, to not be compared to their elder sibling, to not be forced to a shadow to their elder sibling, to not be bitter and full of rage towards people you love, to be accepted as you are, to not downplay your needs and wants just cause you think they're unimportant, to be pampered like your younger sibling, to not have hateful feelings towards your siblings even though you love them the most, to not be a burden for once, to actually be valued and listened to

[diospore]

does anyone else kinda not like how oldest children speak of younger siblings in their posts about growing up parentified and other things along that childhood deal. I'm probably projecting insecurity big time but like it's giving me the vibe that they're really resentful towards their younger siblings for... Being born, I guess. Idk it just gives me bad vibes, especially those "eldest daughter" posts that go on about how ungrateful and spoiled the younger siblings are.

⛔🫘🥣 : I am not saying that all eldest children are toxic or that eldest daughters in particular are toxic, I am speaking of the trends and posts themselves not the people creating them. I understand that it is incredibly difficult to be parentified and have to raise your siblings and watch them get things you never did. It's okay to be hurt. Please drink plenty of water, take your medication on time, eat a snack of your choice, and walk around a little bit.

[miyahsworlds29]