#mindfilness

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Universe is an empty mirror. Life is just the reflection of your deep thoughts.

Amit Ray, Enlightenment Step by Step

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Do things for someone else, not for yourself

Once you have thought about what you want to value and identified what you need to do, you will find tangible joy in your daily life.

One cannot live without feeling some meaning in life. And the greatest human need is to be accepted by someone. So how do you get people to accept you?

To do this, you have to do what you "should" do. It's not what you want to do, but what you believe you should do.

Who do you want to take care of? What do we want to take care of? These are the two things you need to think about. In other words, "live by your own rules".

But that doesn't mean it has to be an exaggeration. You just have to be convinced that you should do it and be able to explain why to others. In other words, whatever you choose to do, the "thing to do" is not a desire, but a value.

Having said that, you need to think hard about what you can aim for with your limited abilities and limited time. The first step is to understand that you can't do "this, that and the other".

Despite it is all an illusion, we all need an illusion. Deciding which illusions you choose to live with is deciding what you "should" do. And knowing that "should" is an illusion, you have to do it without expecting results, without asking for anything in return, and with the attitude that it's OK if things don't turn out the way you want.

To be prepared to do that is to "live".

It is "self" that you happen to be born with.

It's just right to think, "I don't mind wasting my life.”

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