What’s Your Other Passion?
You absolutely love what you do! You throw yourself into your work, day after day, night after night. You live, eat, sleep, breathe events. Everyone knows what you do, you know everyone because of the work they do. Your life revolves around your work in the event industry. You have easily had eighty hour work weeks. You grit your teeth and get nervous when the work slows and you work a forty hour week.
Does that sound like you? If it is, the next question may catch you by surprise:
“What else do you do?”
If you follow author and social media guru Gary Vaynerchuk, one of the concepts he talks about and goes into great detail in his book, Crush It, is to follow your passion. Focus on your passion, develop a plan to talk about your passion, make your passion happen. In short, Crush It!
The question posed to you today, what else do you do when you are not following your passion?
It takes a tremendous amount of work and time to follow your passion. You spend hours and days working on elements that contribute to your success in the events industry. You miss meals, personal events, spend a lot of time awake at night working on details of your business, and it takes a toll. There is a reason you followed your passion into the events business, but the hours, time away from family, personal life (or lack of one), they can exact a toll on your passion, but only if you let it.
Do not take what this blog says for granted. There are at least four people on start.mobilebeat.com that have very publically stated when they left and when they have come back because of issues taking away and/or killing their passion. Well-known DJ expert Todd Mitchem took time away from helping other DJs, his passion. Even Jimmy Buffett takes a month away every several months from his passion to pursue other interests.
Do you run? Do you garden? What about bicycling? What about working on an old car? Is painting a pastime? Are you on a bowling or softball team? Do you like to travel? What do you like to do that takes you away from your passion and lets you “unfocus” your mind and spirit?
Today’s article will share a link from the Mayo Clinic about tips to reclaim control. I would also like to offer a few:
- Schedule an appointment with yourself. Put it on the calendar. It can be at any time, but keep it. If you schedule an hour, it is only 1/24 of your day!
- Plan on two passions; a small one that can be done easily during the week, and one on an annual/bi-annual/quarterly basis that gives you a few days to a few weeks away.
- Share it, and start with family, then move to friends. If you schedule time to do it and intend to stick with it, have someone share it with you.
Smaller items during the week should be fitness or movement related. Running, walking, jogging, and swimming do not usually require expense, just time. Also in this block of time could be golfing, bowling, team sports, tennis, handball, bicycling, gardening, taking a yoga/pilates/aerobics class. Because movement promotes fitness and good endorphins, that is why I recommend them, and one only needs to schedule an hour three times a week to see a benefit to the activity.
Some other items that can range from a couple of days per quarter to a few weeks per year include a construction/restoration project, missionary work, pleasure travel, a staycation that includes working on smaller passions and projects.
The idea is to use these to keep your mind fresh, prevent burnout, and promote an excellent well-being.
Without a work-life balance, the deck is stacked against you. Stress can increase, fatigue can rise, and the ability to mentally focus can be compromised.
Protect your creativity and health so your passion can receive its proper attention, and so can those around you.
For more info:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/wor...lance/WL00056/