Sep 11, 2018
Whatever eases your dysphoria is fine. Whether it’s clothes, or pronouns, or something else. Whatever works for you, isn’t gonna work for everyone.
and it’s fine.
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Whatever eases your dysphoria is fine. Whether it’s clothes, or pronouns, or something else. Whatever works for you, isn’t gonna work for everyone.
and it’s fine.
My earnest to god dysphoria stategy is confidence. Dress how you want and play yourself play. People just kinda go along with people who seem confident. Friends also help. Validating people around you can give cues to strangers that you can’t send alone. So yeah, go be you and maybe even bring friends along for fun.
no one’s denying biological sex, but let’s be real here, literally no one identifies or declares their genitals to be a key part of their identity. Most cis people don’t ever think about their parts. Much less say that it’s a key part of their identity, one that defines them. The only people who do are the people trying to be a dick to trans/nb communities with non-sense discourse. Identity is more than the physical. Identity can be a lot of things. It’s ultimately up to you how you define yourself. Not some rando obsessed with narrow definitions
With Pride month coming up, remember enbies are apart of the community. regardless of what the gatekeepers say, most people do respect and welcome you in LBGTQ+ spaces. You have the right to be proud of yourself. Celebrate yourself and your identity along with everyone else!
Don’t force yourself to present a certain way. Be You. If there’s some mismatched elements, who cares? No one’s strictly anything. Do what you wanna do. Have a feminine or masculine flare. Confuse some conservatives. Who care’s? Life’s yours, be true to it.
There’s nothing wrong with mixing it up! Experimenting and trying new ways of presentation is how we figure out what works best for us!
Just because the science isn’t mainstream on Enbies and Trans folks doesn’t mean A) that they don’t exist and B) that we’re fake. Studies take a while in general, much more to become widely known. We exist and deserve respect regardless of people’s bad-faith ignorance
When people don’t want you to exist, the best thing you can do is live confidently and happily in their face