Sep 28, 2018
Oof, Cleaned the inbox.
How have y’all been? Any good moments of feeling great in your body? Any good community experiences?
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Oof, Cleaned the inbox.
How have y’all been? Any good moments of feeling great in your body? Any good community experiences?
Whatever eases your dysphoria is fine. Whether it’s clothes, or pronouns, or something else. Whatever works for you, isn’t gonna work for everyone.
and it’s fine.
Y’all aren’t a “bad look” for the trans community. You are the trans community. People are just transophobic and looking for an excuse to be so
You’re natural and real and the day will come when ‘Non binary’ isn’t even worth batting an eye. The day will come when people ask pronouns with names. Love yourself, even if some people make it difficult.
Just because the science isn’t mainstream on Enbies and Trans folks doesn’t mean A) that they don’t exist and B) that we’re fake. Studies take a while in general, much more to become widely known. We exist and deserve respect regardless of people’s bad-faith ignorance
I am going to empty the inbox and write up some positivity, but please be patient with me for just a moment.
I am making this to inform you all that Amy has left us. She no longer believes in our community, and believes it to be actively harmful to lesbians. Out of respect, I will not post her letter. Her personal blog was deleted at some point afterward. This is all I will say about this matter on this blog.
Also, I have not heard from Ellis in quite some time. I’m sure it’s been several months, as you have all noticed, since she was on this blog. Although I am sure she is plenty busy, I bring this up because I would like to warn you that this blog’s post are going to slow even further down.
School‘s about to start up again for me, taking even more of my time.
I will my best to keep the account running, because I do see the value and need for these kinda things. People are confused and scared and need something to go to. I understand that. I was once there. Even for outsiders this can be a place to learn about the community. I applied for moderator as an impulse, to work on communication skills, but I’ve found myself enjoying helping people and loving the interlocking solidarity that LBGTQ+ has.
nb-stuff will be here even if it’s not consistently active going into the immediate future. Bare with us through a rocky period. Please & Thank you
-Moderator Kaleb 7/30/18
There’s nothing wrong with mixing it up! Experimenting and trying new ways of presentation is how we figure out what works best for us!
When people don’t want you to exist, the best thing you can do is live confidently and happily in their face