You know telling a teen thats been through something like this that he will never recover and can never move past his issues is not only really irresponsible but really fucked up as well
Okay. Don’t know what to tell you other than everyone has their own separate issues to go through and no, I don’t know what they have been dealing with. No, they won’t ever get past what happened to them cause that will always be a part of me.
Monoma has gone through things that I never have, and I will never be able to understand what he went through. I have gone through things that he hasn’t gone through, and he will never understand what that was like for me. We are all different people who have gone through different situations and emotions. No one who has ever lived can know exactly how someone felt because of something they went through. They can listen to someone and be supportive, but creating the same emotions or feelings is impossible.
All someone can do who is in that situation is either say in that current state, or they can accept or search for help. When someone gets help, they are so much stronger than their problems. They are slapping their past in the face and saying, ‘You can’t affect me any longer. I get to determine who I am, and I won’t let how other people treated me define me.’ That’s someone strong. Sadly, not everyone has the strength to do that, and all we can do is continue to show them love and support by being there for them. Forcing them to change won’t do anything, but confronting them about their situation and telling them how much you care needs to be done. Otherwise, if they don’t know if they need help, then how will they ever get or feel better? They won’t.