#multi attracted

[adhbabey]

Friendly reminder that "bi" is not the umbrella term, it's multi-attracted spectrum or mspec!

Identifing as a different mspec label than bi doesn't make you biphobic!

And using a set definition for bisexuality doesn't make you biphobic either!

Being pan, omni or poly (or any other mspec identity) doesn't erase bi labels!!

All mspec people are valid regardless of what term and definition they use!!!

[viraldoll]

my take on a brownitian (nblw + nblnb) flag! as a person who IDs as nblw + nblnb bisexual, i couldnt find a flag i liked that fits?? but i like this one i made :] 

BANNER TRANSCRIPT:  DNI/USE IF: truscum/transmed, (NO)MAP, anti-MOGAI, kink/NSFW blog, DDLG, anti she/they gays or he/they lesbians, anti-neopronouns or xenogenders/neogenders, flop or cringe account

ILL ADD STRIPE MEANINGS LATER IM SLEEPY!!

[asexualmew]

I feel super fortunate that I was able to learn that I was multi-attracted so early in life, and that I accepted it instantly. It’s remarkable how fortunate I was in that, and I can see that in how it contrasts with learning I was ace- later and harder.

That’s why it doesn’t matter the orientation, if it’s not straight, then it can effect you in different ways than it does other people, and you may accept it better, or poorer, or have an easier time, or harder time, or just learn it earlier or later, and that’s all valid. Knowing that we all have different experiences on even basic things like learning who we are- that’s all valid, and we need to keep this in mind when we’re speaking to others, so that we do not speak over them and their experiences.

What was easy for me to learn I was multi-attracted may have been a hell of a ride for another person. And my hard and awful experience learning I was ace may have been the easiest part of somebody else’s life to learn they were.

It’s All Perspective. Life. It varies.