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Happy Last Day of Pride for every queer adhder who has waited to the last minute to say something.

#babey posts #happy pride #pride month #actually adhd #i expect you all to reblog this for next month because guess what #you all get two months for being queer and for being disabled #love you bc me too #bisexual #nonbinary #panromantic #my identities!! :D 🖤💜💙🩷🩵💛🤍#🖤💜💛🤍-🩵🩷💛-💙💜💖

sometimes i just feel like i'm too uninformed for discourse. can't even give you a source for an argument. too exhausting to even write a paragraph. it feels like i just will never get out the right words to explain it. like i'm just too disabled to even have a conversation with you. aren't you tired of it? i'm tired. i don't even know anything. can't that be enough?

#babey posts #my cat is warming my feet with his body #i don't want to get up to put on socks #surely... surely i can care less. can't i?

Hey... nonbinary folks.. i love you. Giving a little smooch on each of your foreheads as if you were a cat. Thank you.

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Happy pride! remember to read more yuri!!!!

#babey posts #and more yaoi if you like that. but i only read yuri lmao

Hey guys, I think some of you should learn that it's okay to hate, dislike, disagree with and even not want to speak to individual people in your life, who have acted consistently harmful to you. And it's important to keep that in mind, when people say that it's not okay to generalize, stereotype or stigmatize a whole community of people.

Because it will always be okay to feel betrayed, to feel awful when mistreated, to walk away from somebody that hurt you. It's okay to have those emotions and act accordingly to protect yourself.

I personally do not get along with many neurodivergent people, and I explicitly don't make friends in trauma communities, because I know I'm going to get triggered or I'm accidentally going to trigger someone else.

But despite this, despite my misgivings, grievances and personal issues with people. I still push against using harmful terminology (psychotic, narcissistic, delusional, delulu, slurs, etc.), and I still advocate for disabled rights, and the inclusion of disabled or mentally ill people in these spaces.

I could have, and you could have, a terrible experience with other people. But you should not exclude, mistreat or discriminate against others based on their disability, mental illness or otherwise. You should still advocate for consent, autonomy and rights for all people. You should still understand you shouldn't generalize someone based on their disorder or disability. You should still be fighting for all of us and promote unity.

So no matter what, it's okay if you don't like someone with xyz disorder, it doesn't make you a bad person. But please, PLEASE, don't treat everyone with xyz disorder like a bad person, just because one person hurt you. Thank you. Always try to respect others you don't know, your treatment is their first impression of you, as well.

#babey posts #disability advocacy #actually disabled #actually neurodivergent #cluster b safe #actually nd #actually mentally ill #i see these things go either way honestly #i see neurodivergent/disabled people themselves being INCREDIBLY ableist #and then i see neurodivergent/disabled people being afraid to say no or disconnect with people who make them uncomfortable #like no you don't have to interact with xyz if you don't want to #but you can't say slurs and you shouldn't use medical/therapeutic terms out of context #some have become quite colloquial and I get that #but maybe don't say xyz is eugh... 'delulu' because they were unrealistic about their crush #like you're being a dick and you're being ableist when you say that

i'll never get people who are anti-self diagnosis as if I dont see myself having problems. Like do y'all just think this shit is normal? I've never felt normal once in my life. Like oh, memory problems? I don't think that's normal. Oh, my body shuts down when I get stressed? Not normal. Oh, I am screaming and crying then two minutes later I am absolutely not doing any of that anymore? That's not weird to you guys??? YOU DON'T THINK ANY OF THAT IS WEIRD???

Makes me wonder what level of self-awareness other people actually have if they don't see something off and concerning about all that?

#babey posts #self diagnosis #pro self dx #self dx #actually mentally ill #actually nd #actually neurodivergent #I think people who really expect me to go to the doctors when I know I can just google it myself #seem to have an issue with learned helplessness #like what do you mean you're not just going to try to find every possible solution by yourself?#what do you mean you feel safe with relying on other people?#there's something wrong with how some people act like everything's normal when it's not #y'all make me paranoid

im finally on desktop and tumblr is fucking evil for this because i LITERALLY look in the reblogs with comment every fucking time for the image descriptions of posts for my followers. I don't need them, but i try my best to find them for my followers, YOU ARE LITERALLY MAKING TUMBLR A HELLSCAPE @staff WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU?????

#babey posts #babey rants #i also REBLOG MY OWN POSTS #PISS YOURSELF!!!!!!!

I don't know who needs to hear this, but it's really none of your business what hobbies someone chooses to engage in, like anything weird or taboo, or anything really, like we shouldn't be expecting people expose their entire lives for you to judge online, just so they can be in the in-group with you.

Social credibility is bullshit anyway, I'd rather be friends with someone who has a weird hobby, than be friends with someone I have to walk on eggshells around.

So you need to hear that it's okay to be weird and it's okay for others to be weird, and something uncomfortable isn't a moral failing on their part.

The more you judge others, the more of a bully you actually are.

#babey posts #important #actually nd #actually neurodivergent #social currency #i guess idk what to tag this as #just learn to block and walk away more or learn to be okay with weird things #weird things aren't inherently evil #i feel like the more i talk with people with Fe the more I feel like they don't actually understand that i don't care #if it bothers you- it's really just not my problem #it's not some gotcha to make me think about a situation where I'm the other person #if i was the other person- I'd just walk away

Because it will always be okay to feel betrayed, to feel awful when mistreated, to walk away from somebody that hurt you. It's okay to have those emotions and act accordingly to protect yourself.

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