I realized that when I give someone multiple chances to hang out or talk or whatnot and they don't reciprocate, I should just stop trying because it's a waste of their time and my time. Even if I felt like they were important to me in the past. But the past is the past for a reason. I should remember how they were in the past as memories but not let it affect the way I perceive them now. People change all the time and so I should judge them by the way they are now rather than how they were in the past. The times we have had were great but now I must close that chapter and not cling to those memories. I can't afford to be too nostalgic when I still have my present and future to think about. That nostalgia feeling feels good but after it a while, it starts to hurt. It starts to hurt a bit too much.