#mush speaks

[circulars-singlet]

Making an alt to pretend to be your own partner might be the most pathetic thing on tumblr.

Why the fuck can’t I get my own fucking anon hate? Circular gets harassed on the weekly. But my anon hate? IS STILL THEIRS? Wtf man.

Also lmao you’re just mad that you’re single.

And yes that’s a Steven universe ref.

[sealunne]

casual reminder that im also on the aro/ace spectrum :)

if you're an aphobe of some sort, get the fuck outta my blog. this place is not for you and it never will be.

[circulars-singlet]

Hey friendly reminder:

Don’t tell people to kill themselves.

Don’t tell people to harm themselves in anyway.

This doesn’t not make you a good person.

This does not make anything better.

[circulars-singlet]

Hey guys. Does anyone know what you call someone who has hesitant about seeking information about their parts/alters because of the hostile environment of syscourse?

A nervous system.

((I’m so sorry for the awful pun the brain worm is a parasite))

[circulars-singlet]

can’t believe of the million blogs circ secretly owns anon decided this one, statedly run by a whole different person, is one of them.

I know it’s hilarious! Nobody likes being harassed but like. I swear the anon hate circ gets sometimes is so nonsensical I can’t help but laugh. At the end of the day I just help circ with emotional regulation. Unconditional love is important in our relationship.

[circulars-singlet]

So my partner (fairly) recently split a new part and had been really stressed about it. Plus, they’re always thinking about the possible emotional labor I have to put in for their disorder.

But like. The emotional labor for this was:

1) getting to hold the love of my life (while they dissociated)

2) getting to love on a new part of my partner (who I already loved going into this)

And 3) getting to think about how much I love my partner and all of their different parts.

Like, babe I love you. Listening to you talk about work requires more emotional labor and that has nothing to do with your disorder.

As a singlet I know I’m not getting the finer details. But who the fuck cares? I love my partner and nothing can change that.

:)

Don’t worry so much about the emotional labor of someone loving you. Get loved idiot.

[circulars-singlet]

[circulars-singlet]

Imagine logging onto Tumblr.com and thinking “Yes, I will send someone an anonymous message telling them that they’re a horrible person and *insert verbal diarrhea insults* and it is I who is the obviously better person here. Nothing but good could come of this.”

Cause the other option is someone telling themselves that they’re allowed to be a dick because they are Justified and everyone else should rot in hell.

Imagine. (You don’t have to imagine because these people are a dime a fucking dozen)

(**wait sorry I forgot inflation. $1 a dozen. Have a good day)