If you know how to use your tongue you can save a marriage. Praise your wife, talk to her, say good words or your husband. Tell them how good-looking they are. Tell them how you appreciate their sacrifice for you. My brother's and sister's, marriage is about sacrifice!
The more you have sacrificed the more you will win the heart of your spouse. Sometimes even if they don't like you that much -because of a word you may have uttered or a mistake you may have made. Your sacrifice will act as a soothing cream over that particular gash that might have been caused and very soon the mark will be gone. Why? Because you say, you know I appreciate you really. You have sacrificed. You have given birth to so many of my children and so on. and you have done this and you have done that. You appreciate because there comes a point in the life of man when he realizes that allegiance is with the one who has sacrificed for him all along.
What this means is, some people, as they're growing up, you know they're interested in this one and that one, but brother you are married. Interested still in that one, this one here. Looking this person, that person, looking and so on and you know that person is very eloquent and this person is like this and like that but there comes an age when they realize, you know what, my wife is the best. Why? She cooked for me, she cleaned for me, she has my children, she stayed awake with those children, she brought them up, she did this, she did that, she tried their best, she's religious, she's trying to please Allah, she's at the same time this and that...
