im a very bad texter i dont know how to work on this :(
i want to think before i say but i am also very forgetful, so i think "okay ill think of a reply" and then completely forget
sometimes i have to say Hard things, like saying no and etc and that makes me delay even more
i dont delay responding to urgent stuff - like a confirmation or something, but i end up avoiding everything else
i feel like if i instantly reply then i'll waste so much time in thinking and replying and then what IF they revert back to me, then i'll have to talk to them
i know i shouldn't be doing this, so today onwards, i will try to respond to people within an hour or two. no further delay. maybe i'll reply to every pending texts at even hours, like if its 2pm then ill reply to people, and then check my messages again at 4pm (if this makes sense)
