#nahhhh.

[myfairkatiecat]

With new fandoms come new perspectives, I owe Keefe an apology for making fun of his flight instinct because he ain’t half as bad as Neal Caffrey

[snitch-productions]

whats with you and the projector mr spotlight guy, just make out and problem solved

I don't KNOW they just don't like me! . . .

[uhzuku]

You're right but there are some fat people who are unhealthy because they gained weight, or they gained weight because of a health issue. This ofc doesn't make us any less beautiful or worthy of respect and generally as people, but i think in certain cases, promoting a healthy lifestyle can be a little bit helpful. And I'm not talking about the avocados on toast and hitting the gym obsession that everyone has. Snacking, indulging, resting and lazing around is perfectly fine, completely normal, but having some balance there will only do us good. And when people are talking about "unhealthy fat" they most definitely do not talk about those who have some extra pounds and meat and flesh here and there, they're talking about those who are clearly obese and have trouble breathing even. Being open about something that can be potentially harmful is not hateful, it's not criticizing, because it's not an insult to begin with.

coming up to someone you don’t know on the street or in their place of work just to comment on their weight is never your place. there’s literally no excuse for it.

and about this comment you made: ‘And when people are talking about "unhealthy fat" they most definitely do not talk about those who have some extra pounds and meat and flesh here and there, they're talking about those who are clearly obese and have trouble breathing even.’, yeah they do. it happens frequently. you could ask plenty of people if they’ve experienced it when they aren’t as heavy as what you described, or even a few who’re just a little plump, and nine out of ten of these people will confirm that they have. people constantly try and make another person’s weight their business when it clearly is not and again, there is no excuse for it.

and as for this, ‘Being open about something that can be potentially harmful is not hateful, it's not criticizing, because it's not an insult to begin with.’? there’s plenty of ways to help someone without belittling them for the way they look and mocking them for it. there’s plenty of ways to help without insulting them for it. you thinking that commenting on others’ weights without being invited to do so or doing so in an unnecessarily rude way is insulting in itself and you should take a moment to think about that.

yes, promoting a healthy lifestyle is fine, great even, but harrassing people that don’t stick to your specific ideals of a healthy lifestyle is beyond fucked — so is supporting it, and if you do you should be ashamed of yourself.

[orb-weaver-uncle]

he approaches

[sleepnoises]

story somewhat related to selfies

so this one time on tinder (i no longer have tinder. don’t get tinder) i was messaging a guy, as you do. my now nonexistent profile included the sentence “evidently i am a catch.” i think this guy asked me, “what makes you a catch?” which, okay, that was half self-deprecating sarcasm, as is every word i ever utter, which i told him, but i added something like “i’m also very cute.”

his response was something like “shouldn’t that be for me to decide?”

to which i answered “hahaha no.”

[asaahi]

ok it's actually kind of sad(?) that i could probably buy all of those bad dragon dildos if i emptied everything in my bank account.

[microsoftedgy69]

I will forever only make friends with Lalondes and robots.

[onlyhalfdead]

Eh. II've got plenty of tiime 2 learn 2 do that.