#narc ex

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narc abuse believers when they find out im a narc who was abused by my mother the same way empaths describe to be abused by narcs

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anways. if you have anxiety you're inherently abusive because your need to control leads you to be overbearing and controlling of others and strips them of their independence.

see, doesn't that sound fucking ridiculous? so why the fuck do yall think this is okay. get a fucking life and leave us alone. we're no different than the rest of yall because our trauma affects us differently.

fuck the idea that you need to be a good trauma survivor. fuck the idea you have to have hyperempathy. fuck the idea that you need to be a people pleaser. fuck the idea that trauma survivors need to be weak. people with npd deserve fucking respect. fuck yall.

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y’all i saw the narc ex out in the wild for the first time in over a year last night and i SURVIVED

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Here's your reminder that if you were or are a victim of narcissistic abuse, your experience is valid. Your emotions are valid, and having negative emotions towards this person is okay.

I'm surprised to see that more and more narcs are attacking people because "they are overusing the narc word while talking about their abusive ex/relative/friend/coworker, etc because it's trendy". Of course people are people, some of them are going to create a story where they are a victim of a narcissist just to get some attention. This is the internet after all, people would do anything in order to become famous, especially since their personal ID is protected. But the thing is, invalidating others' experiences and shifting the blame on the victim is a narcissistic behavior. They will do anything in order to not get blamed, it's as if their lives were constantly on the line, so they try anything they can to be seen as the perfect little angel, even if it means lying or blaming the victim.

So don't you worry about these so called anti ableists, you are not a bad person for feeling the way you feel right now. Experiences like that can leave you scarred forever, you deserve to at least call a cat a cat.