#narc dad

[whatevenarefeels]

INTJ with Narcissistic parents

Concluding that a lot of my I and J ways may have been subtly shaped by having

narcissistic parents. and it finally makes sense why all of these years..

people viewed me as self-righteous.

[ribbitflings]

[jengatendsto]

Again, it’s been years since I’ve even touched tumblr, but I’m back.

I learned that I’m the codependent daughter of a narcissistic man and my mom is an enabler.

I fell in love with and got engaged to a non-Muslim man and all of this was exposed, finally.

I’m out of that house and finally feel like an adult human being making her OWN choices. It’s been hard as hell, but a beautiful experience.

[peenalize]

narc abuse believers when they find out im a narc who was abused by my mother the same way empaths describe to be abused by narcs

[peenalize]

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anways. if you have anxiety you're inherently abusive because your need to control leads you to be overbearing and controlling of others and strips them of their independence.

see, doesn't that sound fucking ridiculous? so why the fuck do yall think this is okay. get a fucking life and leave us alone. we're no different than the rest of yall because our trauma affects us differently.

fuck the idea that you need to be a good trauma survivor. fuck the idea you have to have hyperempathy. fuck the idea that you need to be a people pleaser. fuck the idea that trauma survivors need to be weak. people with npd deserve fucking respect. fuck yall.

[openblogtomyabusivemother]

"Projection is a form of defense in which unwanted feelings are displaced onto another person, where they then appear as a threat from the external world. A common form of projection occurs when an individual, threatened by his own angry feelings, accuses another of harbouring hostile thoughts."

I have an ex who was a really big cheater and I ended up being really isolated from my friends because of her always projecting onto me that I was going to be a cheater. Projection can be really damaging if you're not careful so it's important to learn how to really know what is yours, what is your responsibility, and what is not. Abusive types will work really hard to convince you that all their faults are actually your faults and that all their bad behaviors are actually all your bad behaviors.

[ribbitflings]

When your fucking narcissistic father calls you to hoover a response and your raynaud's starts acting up for the first time in a while

[ribbitflings]

Father's Day, hoovering, and phone calls, oh my!