>>--->>"WOW, you are NOT who you use to be." - >>--->>"You've changed." - >>--->>"What's happend to you?!" - These are just a few of the statements I've been told, over the past five days, by some people who were closest to me. By people who've been in my life, well for most of my life. - All because... - ......I'm no longer a doormat. - .......I'm not putting them above my own needs. - ......... I'm not their definition of "normal". - ......I'm not jumping through hoops to please them and their "wants". - Wanna know what I've been saying to that? GTFOY! In case you're wondering what that means... it means Get The Fuck Over Yourself! - Ironically, awhile back I had GTFOY engraved on one side of my necklace.. at first it was a reminder to get out of my own way... now I'm realizing it's a reminder that people need to GTFO themselves. - I get it every single person in this world has things they are going through, but if you truly accept a person for who they are..CELEBRATE THAT! BE THERE FOR THEM! Who are you to judge who they are and how they are handling their life hurdles? - But with all the losses I've experienced, I've gained more. What's that saying "When one door closes, another opens"? Apply that to my relationships with people. - In my case, it wasn't doors that closed, it was narrow windows and their narrow ass views. But wanna know what opened? Not doors, but WALLS bursted open! - Most of those walls are amazing people on my coaching team. - It's amazing how you've never met some people face to face, but they can have more of a place in your heart and world, than those who've been part of your entire life! - So in case anyone else is going through some shit, know that you aren't alone. Know that it does get better. It's just about finding people who love you for YOU! - "Gotta go through, to GROW through." - >>>>----->> <3 Keep being YOU! #tuesday #gothroughtogrowthrough #moremethanever #myhappinessmatters #narrowassviews #beyou