#nerodiverse

[sweetbea-o7]

Welcome back to another day of am I insensitive and a hypochondriac or are these actual symptoms?

Today’s addition: Am I still developing tics? Or am I just an insensitive crAcK HeAd?

[adhd-hacks]

ADHD hacks pg 08

read on comicfury too.

[stingscustom]

Bad at Flirting – Please Be Blunt

This isn’t a dating book. It’s a survival guide for neurodivergent adults who are tired of guessing wrong.

If you’ve ever stared at your phone for 40 minutes just to say “hey,”

If you’ve ever gotten ghosted for being honest,

If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “Were they flirting? Did I miss it?” — this is for you.

You’re not broken. You’re not too much.

You’re just wired for directness in a world built on vague signals and unspoken rules.

This book started as a button.

You might’ve seen it on Reddit, Etsy, at Wasteland Weekend, or passed around by someone who saw themselves in it:

Bad at Flirting – Please Be Blunt

What started as a joke turned into something real.

People started trading whatever they had just to wear it.

That’s when I realized how many of us are out here.

So I wrote the book I wish I had years ago.

Inside you’ll find:

Real talk about flirting, social cues, and why you’re not “bad” at any of it

Blunt scripts for texting, dating, and setting boundaries

Ways to talk about rejection, sensory needs, sex, and shutdowns without shame

A deep dive into how to love and connect when you're wired for literal thinking

This isn’t about fixing yourself.

It’s about learning how to connect on your terms—clearly, honestly, and without apology.

If this hits, share it.

Reblog it. Screenshot it. Send it to someone who thinks they’re the only one struggling with all this. They’re not.

We’re not.

The full series includes:

Event Vampire: Invite Me

Event Vampire Survival Guide

Bad at Flirting – Please Be Blunt

However you found this—through a sticker, a button, a Google search at 2AM—you’re not alone anymore.

[understandingalice]

On being a motormouth and wanting to practice solitude, silence and stillness.

Whenever I listen to Christians I respect, I hear them talk about not being able to have a truly deep relationship with God without the practices of solitude, silence and stillness. Which I think is true. But I’m all kinds of nerodiverse, and try as I might, all this has eluded me. Recently though I have had a revelation. Truly, a divine intervention. I’m going to talk about being nerodiverse…

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[ensign-spider]

autism is sometimes not being able to concentrate on fucking anything, even if it's work, school, house care, even if you really really have to

and sometimes it's acknowledging that, but being so frustrated with yourself because all you can do is nothing productive.

and today, i think it's also knowing why i'm frustrated and letting myself feel it without feeling as worthless as i did last time

autism is often telling other people how wonderful they are and then fighting back your own self-talk with anything you can, like you should be held to a higher standard.

i guess sometimes autism is having a bad day.

i am having a bad day.

[sweetbea-o7]

So psychologists, people with adhd or anxiety of tumblr I have a question. For my entire life I would get random chills and energy surges for no reason. But around 4 months ago they became more frequent then more violent. Like I would nearly fall every time that I’d get a chill and I’d feel like running a 5k every time I got an energy surge. Now about a month ago I started doing random little things like shaking my hands, clapping my hands/wrists, and making bird sounds when I got those energy things. And doing that has made it so much better because it helps me to release that energy and it distracts me from it. What are they and why? Also I haven’t been diagnosed with anything cause I’m too worried to talk to my parents about it, also I don’t have to do those things that I mentioned it just feels a lot better when I do. So am I a hypochondriac or are these symptoms of a nerodiverse brain? 

(also there are other things but these seem to be the weirdest)

[ginnypoprocks]

So is it nerodivergent to be busy doing things like work or a project, something you have to be focused on and your mind wonders but in focused ways(like my mind started to compose this post in my head while working) but when you are more relaxed and have time to focus and think your mind goes blank or nebulous thoughts just float around but you canmt focus on any of them!? Just me?