Molly W.'s NICU Story and Family Photography- Somerville, MA
I connected with Molly because we both spent time with babies in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit. Upon meeting Molly, she encouraged me to reach out to NICU families as she has, and so a family photography project for NICU grads began. Molly’s story brought back memories of both the NICU and the delicate time after. Although our stories differ, I share so many of her sentiments.
Molly spoke about how isolating the NICU is - your baby is tucked away in the hospital, with you by their side, and the world keeps turning outside. Coming home can leave you further disconnected. When her son, Max, came home from the hospital, his family had to be extremely careful as he was immunocompromised.
Molly started to reach out to NICU families, trying to create community for herself, and ultimately took a role managing the family program at Beth Israel. When Molly got pregnant again, it was an ectopic pregnancy that ruptured and she nearly died. She went on to have another son, which was another high risk pregnancy. Through all of this, Molly continues to work with NICU families and is now a board member for a national non-profit organization, Project Sweet Peas, that supports NICU families and those who experience infant loss.
I began illustrating Molly’s family in their home. This is the reverential place you want to bring your NICU baby but can’t at first. Then, once your baby leaves the hospital, home becomes your whole world as leaving it can be unsafe for a premature baby. Home life is everything to a family and more to those who have been through the NICU.
I also made some photographs of Molly’s family out and about, on the playground, doing what kids do. I wanted to show, next to the value of family life at home, the possibilities that lie outside. These are the activities that you never dream possible with tiny babies who are born early.
While they may look like so many other families, Molly’s family’s journey is remarkable. I am honored that Molly shared her NICU experience with me and that her family lent me some time in front of my lens.