So weird that people are furious with Ingrid for being racist, while she even admits that she was wrong, but try everything they can to deny that Edelgard wants to finish a genocide.
Okay non-Edelgard related tangent.
I’m absolutely not excusing Ingrid’s prejudice at all, but the very very deeply empathetic part of me sees where she’s coming from. Her entire world was basically turned upside-down and shaken in a day. Suddenly she’s dealing with the loss of someone very close to her, one of her closest friends withdrawing from her completely, another one of her closest friends having a massive personality shift, dealing with tons of marriage proposals when she hasn’t even gotten over her last relationship because her family could quite literally die out if she doesn’t secure something viable, and not a whole lot of support because everyone she knows is dealing with the same loss as her or doesn’t know how to support her in the way she needs.
And yes, we know that Duscur were a convenient scapegoat for the true culprits, but Ingrid doesn’t. And she was what? Thirteen years old and stupidly impressionable when all of this happened? Of course she’s going to blame the people who she’s been repeatedly told are the ones who turned her entire life inside out.
I know a lot of people have beef with her supports with Dedue, and I’m not saying its invalid, but at least she tries to learn and grow and leave behind her prejudices. Which is a lot more than you can say for some characters.
At the end of the day though, I say the biggest issue with Ingrid is not the prejudice itself, it’s just how the entire Duscur subplot is never really commented or reflected upon after it’s resolved. Imagine if all of the Lions had gotten to be at Dimitri’s interrogation of Count Kleiman’s underling. Or, at least Felix, Ingrid, and Dedue. Imagine if they’d gotten to actually react to it—Felix angry that his brother was murdered for some petty political gain, Ingrid facing the fact that she’s been directing her anger at the wrong people all these years and directly apologizing to Dedue for the way she’s treated him, Dedue and Dimitri getting emotional because they’ve known it all this time, they’ve tried telling everyone, but no one would listen because they didn’t have direct proof... Think of how much better that would have been.
But Ingrid doesn’t get to be there and she never gets to react to it, because Ingrid could be dead.
Basically I’m saying they had the setup to some really punchy, emotional scenes and addressing this very important, serious issue and they just... dropped the ball so hard.