Discover Top Posts Tagged with #no acceptance

'This is what my life is. You think that this is temporary, but it isn't. This is what my life is. What I will be.'

Brandon Taylor, from The Late Americans

#identity #resigned #dismissive #not a phase #dialogue #lack of understanding #no acceptance #quotes #lit #words #excerpts #quote #literature #brandon taylor #the late americans

I am and will always be in the denial stage in the wake of this stranger things season finale

#no acceptance #it didn't happen #stranger things spoilers #stranger things 4 spoilers #stranger things #stranger things 4

I think it's funny how the whole spn fandom is kinda going through the five stages of grief after losing Cas and the requited slash unrequited slash who the fuck knows confession, but no one really rached acceptance. No one.

#i mean look through the tags #destiel #supernatural #spn #spn final season #y'all aren't ready #and it's funny cause i'm not either #deancas #casdean #dean winchester #spn fandom #like. there's so much denial. so. so much.#and anger. people are ready to grab their pitchforks i mean it #bargaining. kinda. mostly the others though #and finally depression. i'm still crying about it to be honest. tell me you don't do the same whenever you think about it. i dare you #but like #no acceptance #it's NOT happening #i love y'all

"Never come out to your female friends, they could think you'd *like* them"

- my Mum

"And never ever come out to you male friends, they could think you'd not *like* them"

- Sadly, also my Mum

#because apperently boys cannot be your friends if they don't hope for a relationship #perks of being bisexual #god i hate her sometimes #parent issues #lgbt problems #no acceptance #mothers #coming out of the closet

Thank God I'm Not Gay

If that's the reaction to demisexuality...... thank God I'm not gay. (There's nothing wrong with homosexuality, I just know that coming out rarely ends well) I'm hetero. I just have trouble experiencing sexual attraction. It's not a big deal. Which was why I wasn't going to "come out" I didn't think it mattered. "I wish you hadn't told me" Yeah, I wish I hadn't told you either. If I'd know you were going to flat out dismiss my sexuality, I'd never have fucking told you. "You can't be..... there's nothing wrong with you" If and when you realize my sexuality is valid and I'm right, you are going to realize you told me there was something wrong with me. "If you are, maybe I need to put you in therapy" That's almost as bad as straight camp. "But you liked that boy...." Liking a boy doesn't mean I want to jump his bones "...you were jealous..." Because I liked him, but he loved someone else. He waited for her. "... he's not gonna want to marry someone he can't sleep with" I'm not incapable of experiencing sexual attraction. Even Asexual people have sex (not all of them) "I want grand babies" This does NOT mean I can't have kids. "Everyone's like that" This is different. You don't have to understand, I just need you to believe me. "That's just because you're a virgin" Dafuq with this argument It upset you? You upset me. I'm so glad you can sleep while I cry in the bathroom for an hour. It's not fair to expect you to understand fully. I know that, but I expected you would try. I expected you would accept me. But you didn't try. You dismissed me. Who are you to tell me who I am? Who are you to tell me my sexuality? Who are you to tell me I don't know who I am? You are my mother. You told me you'd love me no matter what (I know you still love me) You told me years ago that if I was a lesbian, you'd accept me..... even if it took you some time. You lied. If this was your reaction, thank God I'm not gay. We may not always agree on politics, but I could tell you anything. Even if you didn't like it. I was wrong. Today, I found out that I can not tell you anything. That you will not accept me no matter what. That there is something wrong with me and I need to be fixed. If there are any parents of LQBTQ+ This is what dismissing your child does. It hurts them badly. It rips their heart out. Do not do this to them. If you have, you need to fix it right now. You don't have to understand. You just need to love and accept them.

#demisexual #i came out today #i came out to my mom #thank god #i'm not gay #dismissed #no acceptance #lgbtq