No More Compromising
The title speaks for itself! Stop compromising by dulling your light, selling yourself short while the mediocre steps in your spotlight. No Queen, this ends today!
Compromising yourself is a very subtle thing at first, much like the devil. It starts by flying low under the radar, barely noticeable but then it begins to build at an easy pace, still being unrecognizable. This compromise begins with family, friends, your job whether you work for an organization or an entrepreneur, vacations, restaurants, you name it, and compromising is found in it.
But how does compromise get into our lives? And by the time we recognize what is happening it has managed to grow into weeds and tares, which have wrapped around our lives, choking and killing our spirit. Well, it starts within our home, the neighborhoods we grew up in, the adults in our lives are our first teachers and we observe everything that they are doing, our brains are photographing and storing it all in high definition. So the exposure has planted the seeds within, good seeds planted within us will produce great harvests, and compromised seeds planted will produce harvests of compromise. And when you are young, you find yourself compromising and not even knowing it and this follows us right into adulthood. For many the behavior is so ingrained it takes them a very long time to come out of it, for the other half there is a real awakening and then deliverance. Now those people who have happily kept you in your compromised state will not like the fact that they can no longer manipulate you, and they will try to guilt you into allowing them to abuse you again, listen, you have been set free and have shut the door on all of it so you can’t go back, ever.
Whatever you have always wanted to do, it’s time for you to do it. If it means leaving a job you hate or you may not hate it, but the field you are in no longer serves you, or you are in it because that is what your family expected you to do, it’s time to walk away from it. Relationships are the same, whether it’s family, friends, love relationships, or marriage, the compromising has to end. We are doing ourselves such a huge disservice and it is time for every one of us to cross the threshold of who we are meant to be, it is time.
If compromise no longer has a place in you, open the door, kick it out and make sure to slam the door and lock it. Freedom is on the other side and you deserve it.
Until My Next Post…No More Compromising!
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