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Embracing every day with positivity. I'm all about new friendships and good vibes. Message me if you're interested in connecting.
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Just laying here giggling about my dating life 😅
This is the year of creating new standards for how people show up for you. You’re creating a new standard for what you accept. Let that man be who he is, but not with you. Raise the bar. You are no longer a women that allows bottom of the barrel treatment. When men come around you they need to come correct, and that is the standard you get to set. You hold that power. There are no tears this year from men hurting you, and leading you on because you’re not even allowing space for those type of relationships to be entertained. You are wise. The bible says be wise as a serpent, but as innocent as doves. Stop playing dumb. You already learnt these lessons. You know better. Use your wisdom. Be crystal clear on your boundaries, so when the next man (test) comes along you already know your weak spots, you already know the repetitive lesson that keep showing up, and you’re ready to step up your game. But of course you want it to be easy, you want it to flow. But that's the energy that’s allowed these men to trample all over your heart, and guess who's left picking up the pieces? The cost is too high. Those months, years, even lifetimes wasted on toxic relationships because you didn’t learn how to set boundaries. It started with your conditioning, it started with the abuse you had to endure and accept. But that season has past, so now it’s time to re-condition yourself. You have the power to do this, to re-programme. Understand what you will allow, and what you will not. Study your past relationships and where you slipped up. Because you WILL be tested, and until you pass the test you will be stuck on this hamster wheel of being involved with men who are not your peace. Practise how you want to feel. Practise feeling those elevated emotions, practise the feeling of safety in a relationship. Of being with a man that consistently shows up for you, practise the feeling of having a man that supports you and wants to help you. How does that feel? Do you even know what that feels like? This is the work. You dive deep into yourself, into your blind spots, so they can no longer blind you. You become the wise serpent. You show up better, because what is the alternative really? Another year of sleepless nights because he’s not messaging you back, another relationship where you are over pouring and feel drained? This is not the energy. This is the year of change. This is the year you become the rose with the thorns.
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Ultimately I identify as a people pleaser. Cis men please don’t DM me, everyone else slide in.
yes, the hockey players are attractive.
but what actually makes them stand out is the emotional maturity.
the respect. the communication. the emotional safety.
maybe that's the real fantasy.
not perfection.
being chosen, respected and cared for.
because how someone treats you will always matter more than how they look.
love & positivity ✨ phi
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💍 “What a Faithful Man Looks Like”
(Because good men DO exist — they’re just rare and consistent.)
Let’s shift the energy.
Not every man is a liar, a cheater, or a walking bare minimum.
Faithful men still exist — but they don’t look like what society glamorizes.
A faithful man isn’t perfect.
He’s intentional.
Here’s how to spot one:
1. His consistency doesn’t fade after the first month.
Faithful men don’t “switch up.”
Their attention stays steady because their intentions are steady.
If he wanted you, he still wants you.
Period.
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2. He makes his relationship clear, not confusing.
A faithful man doesn’t give:
• mixed signals
• half-answers
• vague stories
• emotional distance
He gives clarity because loyalty thrives where confusion ends.
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3. He respects you behind your back.
A loyal man protects:
• your image
• your reputation
• your dignity
• your name
Even when you’re not in the room.
Especially then.
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4. He has boundaries with other women.
Not because you asked —
because he chose to.
No flirting.
No emotional cheating.
No secret messages.
No “work wife.”
No “she’s just a friend” but he hides the texts.
Faithful men don’t play in gray areas.
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5. He communicates instead of disappearing.
If something’s wrong, he talks.
If he’s stressed, he tells you.
If he needs space, he says it with respect.
Men who cheat avoid communication.
Men who are faithful prioritize it.
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6. He’s predictable in the best way.
Not boring — dependable.
You know his habits.
You know his routine.
You don’t have to play detective.
You don’t have to compete with random women online.
Loyalty feels calm, not chaotic.
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7. He doesn’t make you question your worth.
A faithful man values you, encourages you, reassures you.
He doesn’t:
• make you insecure
• ignore your needs
• dismiss your feelings
• make you feel replaceable
He CHOOSES you — every day.
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8. His actions mirror his words.
Promises mean nothing without proof.
A loyal man follows through because integrity is his personality, not a performance.
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9. He takes accountability.
When he messes up, he says it.
He corrects it.
He grows from it.
Cheaters lie, deflect, blame.
Faithful men own up and improve.
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10. He makes you feel safe — emotionally, mentally, and romantically.
Not anxious.
Not unsure.
Not confused.
Safe.
The right man won’t make you wonder if he’s faithful —
you’ll feel it.
Because loyalty isn’t loud.
It’s consistent.
It’s quiet.
It’s steady.
It’s intentional.
Real men do still exist — you just have to stop entertaining the ones who show you the opposite.