Non-binary hate is not tolerated
I stumbled upon a non-binary hate blog and it just makes me so sad that people are like that. Like I hate when cis ppl say shit like that but when fellow trans people try to erase the identities of enby folks I am horrified. This gender binary system is so twisted that we have our own trans siblings turning their backs on us to further the toxic gender roles and stereotypes.
“Give me scientific evidence that non-binary people exist.” How about actual non-binary people? You don’t get more solid proof than that. History! Where in the past there have been gender non-confirming people who didn’t have the word non-binary. Or bigender, agender, and genderfluid. People who lived lives as different genders part nonbinary part something else.
Also in many cultures around the world there has been evidence found of people who identity or have previously identified as a third/no gender in the past. Especially in cultures that have little gender assigned structure. In certain Native American cultures or tribes there are people who were neither gender and took on the roles and responsibilities that both “genders” would do. Hmmmm sound familiar??? And that was in the past. THERE ARE SCIENTIFIC STUDIES.
“You have to have dysphoria to be trans.”
False. There are trans men and trans women who don’t experience (or experience little dysphoria) are they not trans because they love their bodies? Is a woman who is plus sized skinny-shaming because she loves her body type? Non-binary people CAN and DO feel dysphoria depending on the individual.
“They/them, xe/xem, etc aren’t REAL pronouns.”
You know what? There are words in other languages that don’t translate does that mean that subject doesn’t exist? Thou, thee, thy are all words Shakespeare made up and people liked!! The words you speak are all made up too! But there is meaning behind what you say and thats all because human cognitivity, learning, adapting, changing. Words are made up all the time, we give them meaning. They/them and others are valid pronouns as long as they fit grammatically. And oh shit look they do!
Sam went to the store to get their partner chips. They thought to themself that it was an usually hot day so they took off their sweater. They’re going to have to change when they get home.
Greg went to the store to get xyr partner chips.
Xe thought to xemself that it was an usually hot day so xe took off xyr sweater. Xe are going to have to change when xe get home.
Helaina went to the store to get vis partner chips. Ve thought to verself that it was an usually hot day so ve took of vis sweater. Ve are going to have to change when ve get home.