#noodlesandbeef

[dylannoodlesandbeef]

Suzanne Vega - Luca

“And they only hit until you cry After that, you don't ask why You just don't argue anymore“

[bearsimdisappointedin]

Jack Chapman’s mother, Linda, has filed a wrongful death suit against Dylan Hafertepen, Daniel Balderas Hafertepen, Charles Osborn, Matthew Scott, and Philip Myers.

Shout out to Blake Montgomery of The Daily Beast for reporting on Jack’s death, Linda’s journey for closure and this zinger at the end of the article:

[thelastenvoyyy]

Wtf is noodles and beef

Literally a murderer.

[beaky-peartree]

with the noodlesandbeef disaster becoming public, i just wanna remind everyone that no matter how sex positive and “woke” a person is, a 24/7 bdsm relationship is never ever healthy. theyre inherently abusive. two crucial parts of bdsm is the before and after. ESPECIALLY the after care. the after care is what separates bdsm from abuse. being a sub CAN be physically and psychologically damaging if not handled correctly. you can’t live your entire life in a scene. you can’t live your entire life as someone’s sex slave and expect to be healthy. it just isn’t possible. and before some weirdass wants to cry kinkshaming, this is coming from a verse bottom who loves bdsm. i know what im talking about.

[weightandsea]

Notes from an expert about cults

"Beware of any kind of pressure. That's probably the single most important advice I can give anyone. Any kind of pressure to make a quick decision about becoming involved in any intensive kind of activity or organization."

"Be wary of any leader who proclaims him or herself as having special powers or special insight. And, of course, divinity."

"The group is closed, so in other words, although there may be outside followers, there's usually an inner circle that follows the leader without question, and that maintains a tremendous amount of secrecy."

"The group uses deceptive means, typically, to recruit new members, and then once recruited will subject its members to an organized program of thought reform, or what most people refer to as brainwashing."

"Typically cults also exploit their members….mostly financially. Within the group, they'll exploit members financially, psychologically, emotionally and, all too often, sexually."

"A very important aspect of cult is the idea that if you leave the cult, horrible things will happen to you. This is important, and it's important to realize. That people outside of a cult are potential members, so they're not looked upon as negatively as people inside the cult who then leave the cult."

Also: "Most cults are extremely small and very deliberately try to to stay under the radar,"

Im really not trying to get embroiled in this ramen and pork stuff. But there are legit cult apologists out here among us who think this is just a “fringe fetish” with willing adult participants. Read the above and tell me which DONT apply to udon and chicken and I’ll retract my statement that they’re a cult.

[doseofdavis]

Does anyone remember when Dylan Hafertepen killed two of his partners because of his kinks and need for control and then we just all stopped talking about it?

[pineandthistle]

This is my noodles and beef impression

[jacktankchapman]

Dylan Hafertepen is trying to rebrand himself

As probably you already seen, Dylan is doing everything to rebrand himself and remove the tracks of his abusive past. He is changed his site, he has re-launched his tumblr. Now it is more important than ever to make sure we warn people about his abusive behaviour.