Ya know what I find weird? A lot of kpop idols (and other musicians/artists) are obsessed over by their fans but when they find someone they're genuinely interested in and make them happy, somehow the 'fans' then become all possessive and denying.
Some perfect examples include EXO, BTS, and BlackPink. Don't get me wrong, I like their music too but I'm not crazy obsessed with them. Yes, they have nice personalities, and are talented individuals; but they probably want to be treated just like everyone else. Being held on a pedestal can be incredibly lonely and demanding. I for one would not want to have their lives or be their significant other.
It's like, seriously? You claim to love these people so much yet when they find someone you're all like "no way, she/he is mine!" Dude, no. They don't even know your name, they're never gonna be with you. Deal and let them be happy.













