#not suggesting

[i-suggest-be-good-about-gender]

Reminder that there's no such thing as being "born male" or "born female!" The sex binary is made up bullshit used to justify the gender binary!

Do you mean: someone with a penis, testes, testosterone, flat chest, etc.? -> SAY THAT!

Do you mean: someone with a vulva, uterus, estrogen, large chest, etc.? -> SAY THAT!

Do you mean: someone with any combination of those traits? -> SAY THAT!

Be specific! Just say the anatomy! They're not dirty words! Help out your intersex friends!

[i-suggest-be-good-about-gender]

Hi, sorry, when you say "DNI anti-youthlibs", which definition of "youthlib" are you using? Because there's the genuine advocacy for minors to get freedom and then there's the pedo dogwhistle version/the version that insists minors can sexually consent.

I assume it's the former considering you dislike ISFF but you can't really know for sure these days lmao.

Hi, thank you for the ask!

Don't worry; I mean the former. I believe minors deserve the right to autonomy, privacy, self-advocacy, etc. I don't want to interact with anyone who sees them as less than human.

However, I also believe that minors cannot consent to sexual interaction with an adult. This is due to the maturity gap between the parties. For those reading this, if you genuinely believe that they can, get off of my blog. Youth liberation also means freedom from sexual abuse. You are not helping. You are part of the problem.

I think ISFF is a racist, transphobic, pedophilic, disgusting human being who has done vastly more harm than good for the trans community. Her fans are some of the most pathetic, hate-filled, bad-faith people I've ever had the displeasure of witnessing. And never forget what else they did.

TLDR; I support real youth lib, I am not a pedophile nor do I support pedophiles, fuck ISFF.

[i-suggest-be-good-about-gender]

Hey. Hey.

Trans women are people. Got that? People.

Just as lovely and weird and worthy and imperfect as the rest of us.

Their joy is not your suffering. Let it be YOUR joy.

[i-suggest-be-good-about-gender]

Hey. Can TERFs get the fuck off of my anti sex binary post. Can you guys like go fuck yourselves. Thanks.

[i-suggest-be-good-about-gender]

PSA

When engaging with bigots, this is your friendly reminder that it's not okay to use ableist language to insult ANYONE! Even people who disagree with you, even objectively bad people.

Was looking through a blog whose sentiments I generally agreed with, up until the point where I saw the tag "#were you dropped on your head as a child?"

We shouldn't be conflating disability with immorality. I understand that the person they were talking about was actively harmful in multiple ways, and that OP considered them stupid, but using that kind of language for them shows a deeper sort of hatred for disabled people that I refuse to engage with.

I've known people who are physically disabled, people who are mentally disabled, people who suffer with incontinence, people with brain damage, people who rely on machines to survive, etc. etc. etc., and they are all people deserving of respect and dignity. Their morality and character are not dictated by their disabilities.

Shitty recreation of that one meme below.

If you can't criticize someone without putting down an entire population of people for things they can't help, then maybe you shouldn't be criticizing them at all.

[i-suggest-be-good-about-gender]

The amount of radfems who ask me things claiming they're "in good faith" then proceed to have the most abhorrent shit on their profile is fucking hilarious. Like I know you're asking me just to "own" me afterward, I don't need you breaking my dni to know that.

[i-suggest-be-good-about-gender]

I went to valid and awesome island and your gender was there btw. Everyone's gender was there. We're having a sick fucking party.