#notalesbian

[deborarte]

#Hotspot: "everyone is a lesbian and nothing hurts, Little Lamb" ;) #da #diannaagron #notalesbian #felizdomingo #sunday

[queenboxi]

Tipping the velvet. Deep red. Sponge for days. #notalesbian @avahayz (at Glenning Valley)

[totalartificialhope-blog]

I like my hats how I like my ladies: Foreign and always on top 😘😜 #selfie #notalesbian #butiwilltakeyourbitch #mrstealyourgirl #snapsawitfirst

[mustachequeer]

#tbt to Pride in St Louis on Saturday night at a gay club when someone asked me if I had a girlfriend because their friend wanted to make out with a lesbian for the first time that night, and I shouted back "I AM NOT A GIRL" #prettypatrick #pride2017 #gay #transboy #femme #transpride #lesigh #notalesbian #thisiswhyidontalwayslikegaybars #meanwhile #atstraightbars #cishetdudesbebotheringme #idontwin

[poisndrinkr]

“The question isn’t why or how it could fall, the question is how did it last that long.” ( audrey // @notalesbian )

meme me up, scotty!!  →  accepting  →  @notalesbian

‘ more like why didn’t it die. ’

[if-you-just-smile]

gender thoughts

family is difficult, my fb newsfeed is transphobic, gn restrooms are way too easily taken over by ignorant cisfolk, and it’s street harassment season... but on the bright side I’m (maybe) making headway with getting people at work to use the correct pronoun for me

[ellewoodsmode]

Was really feeling my makeup yesterday! . . #selfie #shorthair #plaidshirt #notalesbian #cute #makeup #motd #naturalglow

[irritatedandstillnotalesbian]

Dear Homophobic Individuals,

Hello! First off, I would like to condone you for even taking a second of your precious time to indulge in reading this; secondly I would like to say with every fiber of my being, fuck you. The reason for this brash language is admittedly my fault because for once in my life I have started to care. Now there, you can reblog that single sentence if you’d like and inform people that the rest of this is invalid if you’d like, but nevertheless I shall continue. I have started to care recently, and what about? About the fact that when I am out in public with my girlfriend and we hold hands you all give us dirty looks and make snide comments about how we “freak you out.” Oh... I’m sorry... I had no idea that choosing to be in love for the first time in my life would bother you. Let me just end my relationship so you can stop feeling uncomfortable, that’s the right thing to do isn’t it? No, it’s not. And why isn’t it correct? Because you are acting like a spoiled little brat who didn’t get spanked enough during childhood. Look, I don’t make fun of you because you’ve slept with a guy ten times and he still doesn’t think of you as anything but a skank; so why are you getting mad at me for choosing to love and commit to someone who values me? If your jealous, I suppose that would make sense, but if you’re not do inform me of your reasoning. Within the public eye I have seen countless straight couples holding hands, hugging, and kissing without any ado; however, the moment I so much as walk near my girlfriend and whisper that I love her the entire nearby area is telling me A. “You’re disgusting” or B. “You know maybe you shouldn’t be so openly gay in public... just to keep you safe.” Both are equally unhelpful. And the saddest part is that most of the people who hate my partner and I are people we’d actually get along with. My girlfriend is athletic, outgoing, quirky, and knows more about mechanics and cars than most “good ol’ country men” do, and yet men can’t even consider her as a friend to them because she’s “abnormal.” As for me, I’m a total lipstick, meaning I am as girly as girls come. I love dresses, makeup is fun to wear, and I like watching movies, cuddling, and being treated like I’m an equal human being as anyone else. But you see, that last hobby of mine always seems to be the problem when I make friends. Because men want to try and “fuck [me] straight” where women just pretend they didn’t hear the part where I mentioned dating a girl and try to get me to be interested in some guy. This is ridiculous. And on the note of men and sex, those of you who are reading this and stating “Well two women are just hot together, it’s two men that are unnatural” you’re also a problem, my friend. Stop sexualizing people. Can I call my girlfriend a slut? Sure I can, and why? Because she’s my girlfriend, she likes it, and neither of us is uncomfortable with it. Can you call my girlfriend a slut? No. Not now, not tomorrow, not ever. We are uninterested. So if you find us hot because of the possibility of possibly being inside us, then get lost. You’re not someone we need in our lives. And, I’ll let you in on a secret, my girlfriend and I aren’t lesbian! We’re demisexual! And does that matter? No! Because we’re still in a happy relationship with one another and that’s simply how it is. If you truly have a problem with us because you think you have some right to total stranger’s sexuality then truly, do get some mental help before you end up being an even bigger menace to society. Thank you, and do have a great day.