#nutslove

[nuniek]

Semalam, suami meluk anak dan istri sambil bercucuran air mata... 👨🏻Anak2 kok udah gede2 aja 😭 👩🏻Yaudah yok bikin anak lagi 😈 👧🏻 It's not the end of the world dad #antiklimaks 😂😂😂😂😂 #nutstory #nutsfamily #nutslove (at Sheraton Maldives Full Moon Resort & Spa)

[nuniek]

My lunch date today 😘 Duh gantengnya yang baru gunting rambut 😍 Sayang gamau diajakin makan sate kambing endeus di emperan Indosat ehehehhee 🍢 #pacaranmingguini #nutslove (at Hong Kong Cafe)

[nuniek]

Another blog post brought up by FB Memory... still worth to share. Pic: on our holiday in Kyoto last year. Pegadaian I dont go to office everyday; perhaps only twice a week or less. Thus when I do, I embrace conversation with hubby along our way. Like last Monday. We were giggling as we passed by Pegadaian, remembering those hard days when we were out of money and I have to mortgage a set of gold jewelry given by my mom in law as a present for delivering her first grand daughter, to meet ends. The next 2 months I had to sell that heart-shaped box of jewelry set worth 6mio at that time, to pay credit card that we used to buy milk, diapers, pay loans, insurance, maid’s salary, etc. I remember at that time my maid literally has much more money than I had. We just had a newborn baby and took credit from bank to buy a house. My hubby didn’t get salary for 6 months working in a startup recommended by.. forget it. Crazy silly days. I didn’t share the problem with anyone else. I thought it’s gonna be our forever secret. Until one day as he became a speaker for an event held by Gramedia, in front of 300 audiences he revealed: “Saya pernah kerja 6 bulan nggak digaji sama sekali. Padahal baru punya anak pertama. Istri saya yang menafkahi keluarga.” 😱🙊 And the other day, his partner who’s also my friend asked him in front of me: “Nat, Nuniek matre nggak?” He retold the story above and added, “Kalo matre dia gak bakal kawin sama gue, gaji gue waktu married gak sampe setengah gaji dia.” 😂 Financial problem is one of top 3 causes of divorce, as many research show. So if you’re marrying someone because of his/her money, I suppose you are prepared for a divorce once s/he is broke. Unless you have an evilish plan: marry to rob your partner’s money. Speaking of which, that wouldn’t make your life easy, leave alone happy. Original post: http://post.nuniek.com/post/45831330717/pegadaian #nutsays #nutsblog #nutslyfe #nutslove

[nuniek]

Facebook memory brought back my blog post 4 years ago.. worth to reshare. Pic: on our holiday in Tokyo last year. One fine morning One fine morning, hubby & I had a good laugh about our stupidities in the past, which at that time was quite big problem to us. Financial difficulty was just one of so many problems we had to face during our first 5 years of marriage. There are some other big problems that even made me think to give up. The fact that I love him, or I’ve been given the theories about good marriage in premarital class, or read many books about relationship, or seen examples from my parents, doesn’t change the fact that I’m still clueless of how to deal with real problems in marriage at that time. As time goes by, problems were solved, we learned a lot. That only by passing the test, we can get a higher grade. So when we have other problems coming, we can take it easy because we have solved bigger problems than that. And when the problem is actually bigger than what we previously had, we can keep on reminding ourselves that one day, we’re going to have a good laugh on the problem we’re facing. Just like what we did on that one fine morning. Original source: http://post.nuniek.com/post/47469221583/one-fine-morning #nutsays #nutsblog #nutslove

[nuniek]

Wajah2 lowbatt sebelum pulang kemarin, kecuali pria jenaka yang duduk di samping aku itu.. 😍 He is my personal charger, my living energizer, my own forever lover.. ❤ Yang batrenya ga abis2 Itu rambutku acak2an karena abis dipijitin kepalanya enak banget sampe ngantuks... 😴 I must have done something really good to deserve you in my life 😘 #nutslove #nutslyfe (at Fish & Co Senayan City)

[nuniek]

From last night's networking night. It took us 1,5 hours from @thesultanhoteljkt to @senayancity, so crazy! *Wearing batik couple @salestockindonesia (combined with net bra by @lasenzaindonesia) and red pouch from @m.youclothing 22k 👌🏼 #superaffordablestyle #nutstyle #nutslyfe #nutslove #nutsevent #nuniektirta #nataliardianto (at Localstartupfest)

[nuniek]

So lucky to finally get Valentine's Dinner table for 2 in @negevresto tonight ❤ Wonderful 5 course meal with a bottle of US moscato white wine that tastes sooo good 🥂 #nutsplace #nutslove #nutslyfe #pacaranmingguini #negev (at Negev Art Dining & Gallery Bar)

[nuniek]

I got the flowers again! 💐🌷🌹 Thank you so much dear @nataliardianto 😘😍❤ #nutslove #nutstyle #nutslyfe #nuniektirta (at Negev Art Dining & Gallery Bar)