#nye resolutions

[le-vieux-cordelier]

New years already? What coincidence that you're on the wrong calendar—but I'll humor you—resolutions are simply to love Lucile more ( @luc1ledesmoulins ) , menace and annoy Saint Just in equal manner ( @louis-antoine-leon-saint-just @archangedelamort ) and get Maxime to come around more. ( @defenseur-des-opprimes )

Doable? Not improbable.

[davnittbraes]

Happy new year time is a construct let’s all read more smut

[mymischiefisnevermanaged]

Another year, another one of my fanfic’s not updated. This year I’ll update. I swear!

[thetwelfthcrow]

new year's resolution/to do list 2024

graduate

get job

cook a lot

finish keep me under the charm

finish, if not possible today, racing heartbeats and post weekly

read 7 books

pick up a new hobby

draw more

travel to at least three countries (neighbouring countries count if the visit is for longer than a day and not, like, moviepark germany for an afternoon)

send people physical cards for their birthdays

finish pokemon black and firered and start heartgold

rejoin discord and make a 4433 server

[karlmarxverstappen]

nye resolutions for 2024:

see my psychiatrist at least once to let her know I didn't kill self so I feel less guilty about ghosting her after saying I would indeed kill self

try and avoid ghosting people. specially my psychiatrist.

pilates

interlagos (acquire tickets somehow)

stop vaping and just stick to regular cigarettes for less pulmonary deterioration

therapy?

study and practice more for my post grad so I feel less like an impostor

try not to think about the void

get more tattoos in places my grandma can't see bc I don't wanna upset her and be threatened with boiling water and the cheese grater (again)

[kolasediksi]

got back

It still doesn't exceed January Q1. Henceforth, to commence 2022 as my sequence of life and in order to review my 2021, this postcard is gratefully hereto appended.

How was my 2021 is not like a roller coaster anymore. It was completely complicated but finally it's been completed.

It was about

to get recovered from my worst time in '19-'20,

to get back and be more mindful,

to be ordinarily common to say NO if it's supposed to, and be a whistle blower in the name of integrity,

to master my typical way to plan all stuffs since indeed INTJ is a planner with astonishing precision,

to embrace what I had, that I perfectly admitted imperfections,

and to be more patient and be aware that I have a consequential process to deal with.

Alhamdulillah. And still, bismillah.

No regret, no anger, no complaint.

To get to this position is a blessing. I experienced the process and seriously it was severely hard. Hundreds failed application emails, some businesses had been run as spares, got several MCUs but still failed, opportunity to join internship before got hired for some positions in nearly same time so I had to decide one in no way ease.

Move on? It's too insane. But apparently 2021 was already yesterday. I wouldn't wholly say thank you as 2021 was not gift. I prefer to call 2021 as an obligated path to be more mindful.

To sum up, my 2021 was curved that perfect. It reminds me as if topography has contour, so has our life. But memorize one, we also for sure can create ours. Just put efforts. Rip it, dig it, excavate it, regrade it, until you reshape it. It depends on us. So, 2022, how will it be?

📝 Batukajang, January 2022

Simply, I won't recall them. Those chaoses. I was, I am a new me, then. Alhamdulillah, I got much lessons that had made me Me today.

Allah granted me blessing and hikmah through hardships.

If my yesterday was that easy, would I be this mindful? If I were still me 3 years ago, would this soul be as courageous as I am today? If I got all I wanted smoothly, would I ever reflect that I have consequential commencement and completion to deal with?

I don't think so.

Yet, never mind. It sometimes must be applied on your thought. Just as a lesson. Not a burden. You have to thank too. However, you won't ever be on that position again, will you?

[worldnausea]

2023 Ins and Outs

Outs

- apologising to avoid conflict

- excessive spending

- ignoring text messages for weeks

- centering my schedule around a man

- losing my sense of identity because of someone else

- feeling like my friendships aren't as strong or as closer as other people's

- not enjoying something because it reminds me of what someone from my past liked

- doom scrolling

- forgetting to journal and self soothe

- forgetting to stretch my creativity whilst sad

- stalking peoples social media

- being scared to take and pose for photos

- feeling lazy or productive when relaxing

- leaving clothes on the floor

- not participating fully in the present moment

- letting days blur by without purpose or fun

- Making fashion choices based on what men like

- laughing at jokes I don't understand

Ins

- home made cooking

- themed friend nights

- dressing in my own style

- exercising to feel happy not to lose weight

- live music

- centering queer people and women in my life

- sitting in uncomfortable emotions

- hotel trips out of state

- stable friendships

- self love and self portrait photoshoots

- saving

- saying yes to more social outings

- exploring new locations

- keeping up with messages

- vegetables and nutrients

- fairylights

- knowing when to take time alone

- allowing myself to make mistakes

- transparency and honesty

- sapphic experiences

- letting things take time

- finding joy in mundane tasks

- walking in and exploring during rain storms

- beach days and salty hair

- embracing costumes, cosplay and larping more

- volunteering and engaging in the community more

[zazarainyday]

2023 is the year of laying in bed eating snacks.