I have a really hard time with the smells of cooking causing a meltdown with me and I've tried just about everything to avoid it from happening by using smells I like to plugging my nose. But the place I go to escape (my room) the smells of cooking always get in there. I open my windows, spray smells I like. I just can't handle it though. Then my mom gets angry at me when I have a meltdown that I can't control. I'm so lost as to what to do anymore. B(
@twistymints asked: I get sensory overload thru smell Alot But theres not much i can do about that Like beyond a gas mask?
Putting these asks together because they are similar!
I’m really sorry your mum is treating you this way. It’s not okay for her to get angry at you for having a meltdown. I hope you are able to get away from here to somewhere safe.
Smells are a super tough area when it comes to sensory regulation, as they really do permeate everything and can’t be avoided or escaped from in the way light, noise and touch can.
Coffee beans are often used to cancel out scents, so you may find it useful to carry coffee beans around with you in a small cloth pouch. You can smell it/hold it up to your nose whenever you need to get rid of a scent that’s bothering you.
If there are certain scents that you find soothing rather than overwhelming, it may be helpful to keep something with that scent on it with you. We have some ideas for things like this in our aromatherapy tag[x]. You could also use a scent diffuser in your room to try to override the unpleasant scents.
There’s also a guide here[x] for making your own aromatherapy jewellery that you can put whatever scents you like into.
I hope this is helpful! If anyone else has any advice, please feel free to reblog with it!