#omni oriented

[omnisexualcultureis]

Omni oriented aroace culture is feeling lots of tertiary attraction for people all across the gender spectrums a/ varying intensity, but nobody knows what that means even within the queer community so you just explain what aroace is, hope they don't hate you, and maybe explain further if you get to a point you trust them enough 🫠

That makes a total of 2 people that I know irl that know my full identity kinda sorta, and one of them is quite literally my queerplatonic partner 🙃 fun times /neg

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[closet-begone]

I just realised I forgot to tell you my name! (you can delete my other ask lol)

I'm Felix/River, and I'm coming out as transmasc, demiboy and omni-oriented aroace!

I want to come out to everyone I know in real life, and I know they'd accept me. Still, I'm very scared to come out, and I don't really want to be the center of attention. I want everyone to know who I am, but I'm scared of the moment I'll do it. Any tips on how to relieve that fear?

I can relate to this. I recently had an Experience with coming out to most of my extended family.

First: know your audience. Know if they’ll need a coming out that’s straight (hah) to the point, or if you can use humor/symbolism/a song/whatever. Also know how much you’ll need to explain: do they know what your identities mean? Or will you have to define them?

Second: be prepared. Know what you’ll say ahead of time, how you’ll say it, when you’ll say it. It’s a lot less nerve-wracking when you actually know what you’re going to do instead of jumping into it blindly.

Third: just do it, get it over with. Don’t waste time avoiding it or sitting in silence. Say your thing, answer any questions, and then sit back down- business as usual. It’s not as bad as it seems in the moment and after. The anticipation is a lot more scary.

Good luck! And if anyone has any other tips, feel free to add on!

[omnisexualcultureis]

Hi, hi! Is there a omni-oriented flag somewhere out there?

hi, hi! i found this!

[omnisexualcultureis]

omni oriented culture is having different preferences for different attractions.

so true

[omnisexualcultureis]

hi! i was just reading your bio and saw the term ‘omni-oriented’. what can it mean? i’m curious because for a long time i’ve consider myself omnisexual but the last two years it didn’t feel as right,,. but this label strangely interested me in the first second i read it.

i'm personally not omni-oriented, so it's probably best not to get this answer from me. but from the lgbtqia+ wiki, it's defined as "someone who is aromantic and asexual and never experiences romantic or sexual attraction, but does experience another form of attraction that is significant enough to acknowledge alongside their aroace orientation." of course, this isn't going to be the definition that every oriented aroace person identifies with so it'd be useful to get different people's perspectives! if any omni-oriented people would like to add on to this and educate us further, you are welcome to!

[omnisexualcultureis]

Omni-oriented aroace culture is feeling really detached from the omni community because you’re only omni-oriented, and you don’t even experience sexual nor romantic attraction, and also feeling detached from a lot non-oriented aroaces because you actually want to have relationships and stuff

well hey you’re always welcome and appreciated here even tho you don’t experience sexual or romantic attraction anon!!

omni-oriented aroace peeps (or other oriented aroace peeps)- it would be super cool if you could let us know that you are omni-oriented aroace (like in the tags or somewhere) so that if anon here wants to make new friends like them they could do so (you don’t have to ofc but if it seems like something you would be ok with) :)