#onceguy

[abcsofadhd]

Is it an ADHD thing to struggle for identity and not always truly know what you're thinking or feeling? I feel like I can focus so bad on how I WANT to feel/think or be that Its really hard for me to actually differentiate what I'm actually feeling/thinking or being personally and what I'm just telling myself.. If that makes sense? Like overthinking about urself so bad u start losing your identity.. I really hope that makes sense

I won’t say its an ADHD thing, but rather just a mental health thing in general. With all kinds of mental illnesses and disorders, our sense of self can be distorted.

I definitely know what you’re talking about though, I struggled with it too.. its a lot better for me now, with my coping mechanisms, where I have a better grasp on my mind.

[yiddishfisting]

@onceguy thank you ;; yeah I mean that’s the very least I can do and they’re a very important friend so I’ll always be there for them

[murdered-with-daisies]

onceguy replied to your post “are we all just gonna pretend that new paramore is good or”

Probably Not the answer you Hopes you get so sorry if im rude but HOLY SHIT I LOVE IT SO MUCH

Nah if you like it then its cool, everyone has their opinions :) They used to be my favorite band but these last two songs they released really let me down

[superimaginarygirl]

onceguy a réagi à votre billet “People making up facts for their fave to not look terrible ”

can you tell me who? honestl not tryna be ignorant just wondering

It’s Mon-el from Supergirl. A post came across my dash trying to make him look better by totally twisting everything which is why i made that post. 

[morganalefays]

onceguy replied to your post “What is kebab pizza, I love both but together they sound suspicious”

ITS THE BEST HOLY SHIT

lancesarah replied to your post “What is kebab pizza, I love both but together they sound suspicious”

ITS SO GOOD

RIGHT!!!!!!!! i’ll buy one tomorrow probably

[superimaginarygirl]

onceguy a réagi à votre billet “People making up facts for their fave to not look terrible ”

is this about someone specific

Yes. 

[falloutparamore]

onceguy replied to your post :so the scariest and most Australian thing ever...

oh my god this is terifying

it was not fun. i got my brother to help me, and i just found three dead ones in the bed...so theyre still everywhere, but i shouldn’t be surprised. It’s australia and it’s hot, and whenever it get too hot the bugs and stuff come inside to hide from the heat...so it’s normal, but sucks

[seastarved]

swanshope replied to your post “That annoying type of anxiety when you don’t know what you’re anxious...”

Oh my god it's like you're reading my mind. I read something earlier about OUAT ending this season and went into full on panic mode and had to calm myself down. It makes me really anxious because it's been such a huge part of my life.. and I start irrationally worrying worry about this little community we've got going here disintegrating as everyone finds their ways into new fandoms, and losing my friends etc. It's silly but it's not. Sending you lots of hugs!

@onceguy reblogged your post and added:

Ok this might sound VERY weird but as a kid everytime i thought about death i was scared and got this weird feeling of inevitability that i just never got while thinking of anything else. And know while im thinking about ouat ending i get a very similliar feeling.. idk this shows been around for a really lond and a very important time in my life and it kinda became my ‘anchor’ and i feel like this show is just making me a lot more stable. so i rly understand you, its not silly!

UGh YES Same though! You guys, hearing that I’m not alone in this makes me feel SO much better?

And yeah, it’s exactly how you describe it. This has become this weird anchor for me, somewhere to retreat to when life gets rough and I’m kind of terrified of losing it.

*hugs*