The Tinder barrier has once again dropped and I’ve hit that ‘Urgh! I don’t think I can be bothered with this’ point. Has anything bad happened? Nope. Has someone been rude? Nope. Have I been on a terrible date? Nope. It’s just at the point where I’m talking to a whole bunch of men and I’m not sure if I can really be bothered. Some of them I quite like (the two policemen seem nice - luckily they work for different forces), but there’s nobody I have that ‘pow!’ with. I’m also now stuck with the fact that they want to meet up and I’m terrified that when they actually meet me, they’ll think I’m chubby and boring and I will have wasted weeks of charm and energy! Plus there is one guy who seems so lovely, but he’s particularly hot and I just think it’ll be another situation where we meet and instantly he isn’t interested! I’ve just been for dinner with my BFF and she (obviously, this is why we’re friends - along with our dislike of cream and most people) told me I am being stupid and that I should go on a date or two. As long as I don’t pin all my hopes on it, which I’m not (but secretly would be). The traumas of dating, especially online dating. The majority of my friends have no idea, they met men years ago and instantly formed ‘just add water’ relationships. At least I can comfort myself with the fact that they settled (harsh, probably true in half the cases and it makes me feel better, but harsh)!