Pansexual and Open relationships
Alright, i know there has to be others out there in Tumblr land that have had this experience and is as frustrated as I am. I know that my situation isn't the most common and I know that it's not what most people would be out looking to get involved with. but the thing is, i am always 100% honest upon meeting a potential partner, and for some reason they always seem to ignore my initial disclaimer and try to pursue their own agenda regardless... I am engaged. My fiancé and I are both pansexual and we have an open relationship as far as sex is concerned. However, we are always each other's # 1 priority. I tell every potential partner this RIGHT UP FRONT. And for some reason they all seem to think they can steal me away from him. It's all well and good, we are having a good time for a few weeks and then suddenly they are start acting funny and making comments about stealing me from my fiancé and talking about how I should be theirs. That's not how this works sweetheart, and I told you that from the beginning that I am getting married and that we both like to have fun with others on the side and you said you understood and respected it. It's cool if you're looking for a serious relationship with someone, but that someone isn't me and I have made that clear.
